It is all minor stuff. Not that our arguments made me upset. It is the fact that I flew over 8 hours to see him and he couldnt just be nice to me for 5 days. When he gets frustrated I hope he could take one minute to think I took too much effort to come to see him. You can ask a native American " Love somebody to death" is not a Chinese term. I learnt that from a American, hehe.. But I agree with you. I shouldnt mention this as it wont affect any of our decision. I dont want to make sisters here feel that I am a spoiled little brat. I just happen to work in IT and have a lot of chances to meet single guys. I am outgoing and like to make new friends. Nothing special really.