It is hard to explain...

He is indeed unstable. But it is all about minor things so I really couldnt find out one big thing to talk about. I flew over 8 hours to see him and we could only spend 5 days together. I was expecting a good time not his crunky behavior. Could he just treat his girlfriend well for 5 days? The cause of the argument is minor. But when we talked about it his attitude just made me really upset. I didnt want to send a break up message. He sent me three emails continuously. I was thinking how to reply his email. I wont relocate to somewere 3000 miles away to be with someone unstable. If I sacrifice to move to his place he should promise to be nice to me. That is all I want. My email isnt a breakup email. I gave him a condition he could choose. Either treat me well consistently or it is over. Of course, I need to calculate the situation. Dont we all? I have somebody who loves me locally. My boyfriend has to give me some confidence to move to his place. It is a big decision. 3000 miles away. I want to make sure I move there for good. If he couldnt even hold his temper for 5 days how could I expect spend the rest of my life with him. How come the sisters here all cast towards the guy's side. We are not born to given. It should be equal.

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• I will come, my love, though it were ten thousand mile -非典型性淑女- ♀ (68 bytes) () 10/19/2009 postreply 18:56:06

• Honey, for God's sake, don't move! -888891- ♂ (192 bytes) () 10/19/2009 postreply 19:16:00

• 你自己都知道他连5天的nice都做不到，别指望一辈子了，他对你不合适。 -夏日童话- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/19/2009 postreply 20:09:16

• 赫赫，你饶了他吧：） -胡桃架子-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/19/2009 postreply 22:31:53

• do you think he can change even if he makes a promise? -ttmum- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/20/2009 postreply 20:00:06