好奇地问一句: 按MM说的, 如果她在国内找不到工作,是不是也

可以不用问孩子爸的意见, 在国外找一个, 带孩子一起走呢? (不是抬杠, 是问题. 是不是在国内各处流动不收限制, 流动到国外会不行?)

关于MM的回复, 我想说的是:至少她应该努力先在本地找工作吧? 除非"他给她找个工作"这种说法太...了吧(暂没找到最合适的词).

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• how do you define 她应该努力先在本地找工作? -Kamioka- ♀ (549 bytes) () 09/21/2009 postreply 09:27:14

• after only 3 weeks, how much effort did she put in -swm06- ♀ (211 bytes) () 09/21/2009 postreply 09:35:34

• only 3 weeks, she and her kids needs to live during 3 weeks... -Kamioka- ♀ (774 bytes) () 09/21/2009 postreply 09:41:34

• 她只在上周起开没上班, 一个星期而已. -longhair- ♀ (428 bytes) () 09/21/2009 postreply 09:58:40

• 为了孩子，他可以增加探视权，多在周末，节假日看孩子，不一定等孩子看他。 -watercress~- ♀ (170 bytes) () 09/21/2009 postreply 10:05:19

• 谢谢MM, 这的确是一个OPTION, 我会把大家的建议给他. -longhair- ♀ (154 bytes) () 09/21/2009 postreply 10:14:22

• 我们公司一般会一个月前就给你被裁的通知，在这一个月内你可以先在 -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (308 bytes) () 09/21/2009 postreply 10:09:02

• 嘿嘿...怎么好些JM都以为她是单身呢? :) -longhair- ♀ (29 bytes) () 09/21/2009 postreply 10:16:20

• 她不是只有BF吗？还是我看错了? -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2009 postreply 10:33:04

• 不好意思, 误导了... -longhair- ♀ (63 bytes) () 09/21/2009 postreply 10:54:44

• OK. IC. So her partner still has job to support the family? -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2009 postreply 11:01:29

• her partner still has job here..but -longhair- ♀ (110 bytes) () 09/21/2009 postreply 12:20:57

• I'm just saying different people have different view of 'best' f -Kamioka- ♀ (507 bytes) () 09/21/2009 postreply 10:17:23

• I fully understand that different people have different view of -longhair- ♀ (71 bytes) () 09/21/2009 postreply 10:21:53

• from my point of view, I would suggest the stepmom to involve mi -Kamioka- ♀ (389 bytes) () 09/21/2009 postreply 10:27:22