Even you decided to tell your kids the truth, they will not be able to understand it. The truth will hurt them because the kids will not want to take side no matter what. They love you both, they will get it once they grow up.
I'm in the same boat. My ex went back when my son was 5 and only started to pay when my son was 12. He didn't even have time to spend summer with my son over the years. The best of this is that you don't have to consult him for any decision you make for your children, so think positive. I had the option to pursue him through legal means but decided not to do that. After all, you want to do what's best for you kids even it means that may hurt financially in the near term. You can do your best to raise your kids to become a different kind of people, being more responsible than their father. Life will teach your ex a lesson in some other ways and reward you what you have done to your kids. Hugs!!!
I'm in the same boat. My ex went back when my son was 5 and only started to pay when my son was 12. He didn't even have time to spend summer with my son over the years. The best of this is that you don't have to consult him for any decision you make for your children, so think positive. I had the option to pursue him through legal means but decided not to do that. After all, you want to do what's best for you kids even it means that may hurt financially in the near term. You can do your best to raise your kids to become a different kind of people, being more responsible than their father. Life will teach your ex a lesson in some other ways and reward you what you have done to your kids. Hugs!!!
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