In China they tell you that hard work will get you anywhere. But here in America all you see is lazy people. They come into my shop and ask me to find this or that. How come they don’t look themselves? People in America depend too much on other people for help. And then they pretend they cannot understand me. My English is funny, they say. I bet if they go to China they will see how hard it is to learn another language. American kids act so bah-bi, it means they act like they know everything. They all act like they are rich kids, not humble at all, especially to their elders. I see the kids in America do not know respect. They just burn money and don’t care about anything. ‘Ah, Daddy I want Burberry, I want Gameboy, I want new car.’ And then their parents say “Yes Sir.” Ai ya, in China they ask the same thing and their parents will beat them; ask for so many things and they do no hard work they are asking for beating. Even my kid has become lazy. Always complain to me, but does no hard work to get what he wants. All he does is dream. In China you did not dream, you did what your parents told you. And that is it. If your parents say you become a doctor, you work hard to become doctor. They say the sky is orange and you say “Yes, Sir.” But the world is different now. I don’t expect my son to become a doctor, no way he is not smart enough. But he don’t even try. He is smart, maybe can become engineer, but all he wants to do is dream. Dream of becoming a writer, actor, something useless. Ai ya, we work so hard in America and all he does is give us heart attack. Maybe we should send him back to China; he can work in the rice fields and see when he can have time to dream.
注解 bah-bi-巴闭, 广东话,即很牛的意思
China - 我女儿在她的creative writing class的一篇习作
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这是以一个第一代移民, 一个父亲, 一个小店主的口气写的
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12/01/2008 postreply
17:13:40
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呵呵,模仿的真好玩!你女儿真是有才!!
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12/01/2008 postreply
17:14:58
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多谢, 可能她是把我日常骂她的话记下来 :)
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12/01/2008 postreply
17:20:49
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你可是教育高手:)
-小胖子的妈妈-
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12/01/2008 postreply
17:36:25
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你的女儿一定会象她妈妈那样出色的
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12/01/2008 postreply
18:03:57
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谢谢!我就觉得自己观察孩子不是很耐心,看来很重要啊
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12/01/2008 postreply
18:10:00
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Sorry, 应是"比较差"
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12/01/2008 postreply
18:10:35
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谢谢能看懂:)
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12/01/2008 postreply
18:18:53
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哈哈哈
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12/01/2008 postreply
17:24:15
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今天怎么有时间玩?刚上来扫一眼,全是阿牛的贴,等一下慢慢看。
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12/01/2008 postreply
17:57:56
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聊电影呢
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12/01/2008 postreply
18:28:10
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Thanks for 牛弟 :)
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12/01/2008 postreply
18:08:26
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you got a talent girl
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12/01/2008 postreply
18:28:39
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写的很好玩。不太像在坛里混的第一代移民,也许像chinatown的?
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12/01/2008 postreply
18:23:54
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I like it alot and I will show it to my kids tomorrow
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12/01/2008 postreply
18:30:06
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写的好。其实这种隔阂更多的是年龄而不是文化,
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12/01/2008 postreply
18:51:33