学业和结婚 are not mutually exclusive choices.

"为了它， 你不愿意有任何打扰." is impossible. The world is not a vacuum. The key to a successful life is to manage and maintain the balance among relationship, career and many other things.

Plus, anybody that says marriage is a 打扰 to his/her career, is just using family as an cheap excuse for their poor management skills. If you foresee that as a potential problem, then you really shouldn't get married.

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• 非常同意。Balance其实是整个生活的关键，况且生活本来就是多面的。 -笑_脸- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/17/2008 postreply 07:58:15

• :) -fanfan88- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/17/2008 postreply 08:16:06

• Well said. -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/17/2008 postreply 08:58:57