在考虑是否助养孤儿的问题。请有过经验助养孩子的姐妹谈谈

来源: 笔谈 于 2008-05-16 11:28:25 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (1006 bytes)

自己的心得或经历。我从没有这方面的经验。

我看到那则启示后，跟老公电邮商量是否参加。
我老公回答：I don’t know. It is not about financial part of the issue but about the emotional attachment part. It could be quite rewarding to see that little person growing up and becoming a successful adult but I would worry as well. Let’s talk

这其实也是我的一个心结。
For me the emotional part is not worry. I don't mind to worry about one more person, just if he or she become someone I extremely don't like (which might not necessarily be a bad person), I will feel very upset.

For example, if a girl grows to be a very vain and shallow person, she might still be a good citizen, but I will feel very upset. you know she will possibly send you emails full of her shallow remarks. I don't know by writing her or meeting her can change that. I will feel that one additional thing in my life I feel irritated about. You know I even feel irritated by some people's remarks on internet.

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