我对灭绝师太帖子的一点看法

来源: gzlady 于 2007-12-31 13:32:04 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (509 bytes)

本来我不想看灭绝师太帖子的， 因为我想她大概会和我有代沟。 但昨晚我看了开头的几段，就一口气把那帖子看完了。 我认为她写得很真实， 自然。而且文笔也很流畅。 令我最欣赏她的是， 她和大多数date/married西人的亚洲女孩不同，她没有对西方文化， 西方男人的盲目崇拜（别砸我, it is only my point of view)。 她不会为了讨好男友而刻意改变自己。 她活得很自信，自尊。

但另一方面，如果我女儿也象她一样性开放，那我肯定会很担心， 甚至会很愤怒。 看得出灭绝师太是个很优秀的女孩，她会生活得很精彩的， 只是希望她能保护好自己.

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• I thought she did not like the fact that -what_name_to_use- ♀ 给 what_name_to_use 发送悄悄话 (190 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 13:40:47

• I didn’t read her story either. If it is the case, I -AP24- ♀ 给 AP24 发送悄悄话 (26 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 13:48:28

• What I like her the most is that she put herself on the equal -gzlady- ♀ 给 gzlady 发送悄悄话 (649 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:02:04

• 记得一有名的心理学家曾说： -AP24- ♀ 给 AP24 发送悄悄话 (147 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 13:46:07

• APJJ好. 俺觉得他说得对:) -alazycatinsd- ♀ 给 alazycatinsd 发送悄悄话 alazycatinsd 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 13:52:19

• 懒猫妹好。:-) -AP24- ♀ 给 AP24 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 13:56:57

• Well, how many people actually really like the fact -what_name_to_use- ♀ 给 what_name_to_use 发送悄悄话 (152 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:37:16

• I was upset because A is my best friend here, how ugly it -alazycatinsd- ♀ 给 alazycatinsd 发送悄悄话 alazycatinsd 的博客首页 (147 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:53:54

• 建议也看看dp123大侠的评论. 如果我女儿象她(可惜没),我会担心心疼微笑自豪.她永远不会真正迷失自己! -沙发土豆- ♀ 给 沙发土豆 发送悄悄话 沙发土豆 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 13:48:53

• 刚刚回来,连滚带爬地考了这些古 -alazycatinsd- ♀ 给 alazycatinsd 发送悄悄话 alazycatinsd 的博客首页 (542 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 13:50:25

• 啊，妹妹你来啦？那我好好看看小师太的文章再发言吧。 -AP24- ♀ 给 AP24 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 13:54:31

• Totally agree with you :))) -gzlady- ♀ 给 gzlady 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:19:21

• I totally agree with you too. -简娜- ♀ 给 简娜 发送悄悄话 简娜 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 18:32:41

• 跟姐姐唱个小反调。她来美国的状况和专业都和我自己比较像， -smiling_face- ♀ 给 smiling_face 发送悄悄话 smiling_face 的博客首页 (884 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 13:52:42

• 同意, 你真的是灭绝师太, 而她是灭绝师太的马甲! -沙发土豆- ♀ 给 沙发土豆 发送悄悄话 沙发土豆 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 13:59:59

• :)25 is still very young. I had absolutely no intention of -MMXIAO- ♀ 给 MMXIAO 发送悄悄话 (348 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:05:04

• 当时结婚的原因是第二年我们就都要答辨了。我们都拿到了 -smiling_face- ♀ 给 smiling_face 发送悄悄话 smiling_face 的博客首页 (128 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:13:33

• Reason doesn't matter:)You have a nice family and that's -MMXIAO- ♀ 给 MMXIAO 发送悄悄话 (333 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:21:46

• I think most marriages need a little push :) -smiling_face- ♀ 给 smiling_face 发送悄悄话 smiling_face 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:28:23

• Yes, you are way smarter than her. I agree with you that -gzlady- ♀ 给 gzlady 发送悄悄话 (528 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:12:44

• I was thinking the same thing about her -what_name_to_use- ♀ 给 what_name_to_use 发送悄悄话 (133 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:26:42

• I personally prefer Paris Hilton, at least she has a tape -lilly1234- ♀ 给 lilly1234 发送悄悄话 lilly1234 的博客首页 (22 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:06:46

• No offend, just jokking -lilly1234- ♀ 给 lilly1234 发送悄悄话 lilly1234 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:08:18

• I think she is much more intelegent than Paris Hilton. There -gzlady- ♀ 给 gzlady 发送悄悄话 (34 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:14:55

• agree -MMXIAO- ♀ 给 MMXIAO 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:24:24

• How so, from the economic point of view -lilly1234- ♀ 给 lilly1234 发送悄悄话 lilly1234 的博客首页 (179 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:27:55

• Paris Hilton is famous because she was born in the right -gzlady- ♀ 给 gzlady 发送悄悄话 (179 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:37:05

• Just like you. I will be very upset if my daughter does -MMXIAO- ♀ 给 MMXIAO 发送悄悄话 (121 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:12:34

• Haha, that's what I said. If I were her, I would had dumped -gzlady- ♀ 给 gzlady 发送悄悄话 (126 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:24:07

• JP是什么意思？洁僻？她还没找到幸福呢，有啥可炫耀， -AP24- ♀ 给 AP24 发送悄悄话 (41 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:12:46

• 据说是极品的意思. -小妹妹~~- ♀ 给 小妹妹~~ 发送悄悄话 小妹妹~~ 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:14:14

• 她自称她是极品女人？嗨。 -AP24- ♀ 给 AP24 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:17:27

• She will find her happiness, if she wants to settle down. -gzlady- ♀ 给 gzlady 发送悄悄话 (73 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:17:43

• 回复：She will find her happiness, if she wants to settle down. -AP24- ♀ 给 AP24 发送悄悄话 (122 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:22:33

• A marriage proposal is not the only form of happiness -MMXIAO- ♀ 给 MMXIAO 发送悄悄话 (38 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:27:49

• If she like to settle down, or try to change herself a bit for -gzlady- ♀ 给 gzlady 发送悄悄话 (285 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:31:11

• Well, how can she believe if she changes a little bit -AP24- ♀ 给 AP24 发送悄悄话 (145 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:36:23

• You are trying to use your own definition of happiness to -MMXIAO- ♀ 给 MMXIAO 发送悄悄话 (107 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:40:17

• In her story endings, she sighs, where is my happiness? -AP24- ♀ 给 AP24 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:42:35

• Did she mean marriage? Or just a person? -MMXIAO- ♀ 给 MMXIAO 发送悄悄话 (179 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:46:22

• Obviously, JP man and MD neither are her perfect -AP24- ♀ 给 AP24 发送悄悄话 (35 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:51:25

• :) Her life isn't over. She doesn't have to turn back to -MMXIAO- ♀ 给 MMXIAO 发送悄悄话 (390 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:58:54

• 其实，很多人年轻时都有其失败的经历。说点成功的经历让人 -AP24- ♀ 给 AP24 发送悄悄话 (12 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 15:11:30

• She has strong feelings to a man who she named A and stays in Pa -蓝色记忆- ♀ 给 蓝色记忆 发送悄悄话 (199 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 16:38:50

• The problem is that she doesn't like to marry anyone right -gzlady- ♀ 给 gzlady 发送悄悄话 (167 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:40:46

• She hasn’t found the right person to marry. -AP24- ♀ 给 AP24 发送悄悄话 (113 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:47:36

• 我咋听说是"鸡婆"的意思? 嘿嘿...更喜欢"鸡婆".有啥好极品的呀. -沙发土豆- ♀ 给 沙发土豆 发送悄悄话 沙发土豆 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:18:24

• 如果师太自认极品, 就倒胃口了.可俺觉得她从没一丝认为自个儿是极品的意思 -沙发土豆- ♀ 给 沙发土豆 发送悄悄话 沙发土豆 的博客首页 (39 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:22:37

• 如果说她敢拒绝极品男的求昏，而拒绝的理由是他的品质而不 -AP24- ♀ 给 AP24 发送悄悄话 (28 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:31:32

• 那人太完美了, 摊在俺这等俗人身上也不敢啊.又不是找偶像. -沙发土豆- ♀ 给 沙发土豆 发送悄悄话 沙发土豆 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:37:21

• It seems to me, that MD is a trash, a womanizer jerk. I would -gzlady- ♀ 给 gzlady 发送悄悄话 (193 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 15:25:02

• HAHA, T-BACK looks nice, but not comfortable -happynomad- ♀ 给 happynomad 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 16:48:12

• 听说她DATE过的一个是极品男, 别的就不知道了, 她的故事我也没看. -小妹妹~~- ♀ 给 小妹妹~~ 发送悄悄话 小妹妹~~ 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:21:59

• 本来不想再提这个师太，但我在天涯潜水时间长些，看到有些 -麻花辫- ♀ 给 麻花辫 发送悄悄话 (389 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:45:58

• Thank you for telling us more detainl of her story. Best wishes -gzlady- ♀ 给 gzlady 发送悄悄话 (29 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 15:19:42

• I like her and -happynomad- ♀ 给 happynomad 发送悄悄话 (218 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 14:53:06

• She is not afraid of doing anything because she can -AP24- ♀ 给 AP24 发送悄悄话 (197 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 15:03:19

• this is why she calls herself "JP." -happynomad- ♀ 给 happynomad 发送悄悄话 (274 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 15:27:14

• I like her independent, self respect spirit , her sharp thinkin -gzlady- ♀ 给 gzlady 发送悄悄话 (103 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 15:46:16

• 我没把绝师太帖子看完，最近坛子上一直在讨论她，看来我的继续读完 -臭臭妈妈- ♀ 给 臭臭妈妈 发送悄悄话 臭臭妈妈 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/31/2007 postreply 16:17:05

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