To lazycat,

来源: sansemao 于 2007-10-24 17:10:02 [] [博客] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (673 bytes)

I don't get your concerns at all. What are you worried about? The only reason that I can find out is that you have already fell in love with him and are trying very hard to deny it. How can he hurt you if you are open and honest to him? If you guys get along well, that is great, and commit to each other. If not, say he wants to be non-exclusive, then move on. Isn't it a simple thing? The only thing that worries you would be that if he does not want to non-exclusive relationship, you would not move on, and rather you will still be into him... Well, in this case, it is not his fault, but your fault, cause you are not protecting yourself and looking after yourself.

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• 回复：To lazycat, -Oona- ♀ 给 Oona 发送悄悄话 (50 bytes) () 10/24/2007 postreply 17:28:58

• Her concern is she is not sure whether he is non-exclusive -acme- ♀ 给 acme 发送悄悄话 acme 的博客首页 (60 bytes) () 10/24/2007 postreply 17:41:47

• How about just ask him or have a direct talk -littlething- ♀ 给 littlething 发送悄悄话 (86 bytes) () 10/24/2007 postreply 17:50:39

• I don't think that is a good idea. I has answered her with my -acme- ♀ 给 acme 发送悄悄话 acme 的博客首页 (16 bytes) () 10/24/2007 postreply 19:39:26

• 9494,我不开这个头,只闭上嘴,续钓其他帅哥们. -alazycatinsd- ♀ 给 alazycatinsd 发送悄悄话 alazycatinsd 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/24/2007 postreply 19:43:11

• Open communication can only be applied at later stage of relatio -acme- ♀ 给 acme 发送悄悄话 acme 的博客首页 (26 bytes) () 10/24/2007 postreply 19:46:24

• 时事所迫,不smart,早死定了:) -alazycatinsd- ♀ 给 alazycatinsd 发送悄悄话 alazycatinsd 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/24/2007 postreply 19:49:23

• 对呀, 有时好人和坏人是很难分得清的, 特别是时间有限时. -alazycatinsd- ♀ 给 alazycatinsd 发送悄悄话 alazycatinsd 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/24/2007 postreply 19:41:26

• Why时间有限? The BEST strategy is slow down,take time -acme- ♀ 给 acme 发送悄悄话 acme 的博客首页 (126 bytes) () 10/24/2007 postreply 19:45:08

• 快要和A短兵相接了,还不是时间有限?我要slow down,他不配合呀! -alazycatinsd- ♀ 给 alazycatinsd 发送悄悄话 alazycatinsd 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/24/2007 postreply 19:47:38

• When I say slow down, I am speaking of really a long period -acme- ♀ 给 acme 发送悄悄话 acme 的博客首页 (371 bytes) () 10/24/2007 postreply 19:53:02

• But of course, the decision is yours on whether you two are -acme- ♀ 给 acme 发送悄悄话 acme 的博客首页 (293 bytes) () 10/24/2007 postreply 19:56:49

• 天啊,我要爱上你啦!简直是一针见血.我要打印出来,挂在床头! -alazycatinsd- ♀ 给 alazycatinsd 发送悄悄话 alazycatinsd 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/24/2007 postreply 20:01:22

• If I were a man I will爱上你as well. From what you wrote about -acme- ♀ 给 acme 发送悄悄话 acme 的博客首页 (268 bytes) () 10/24/2007 postreply 20:08:03

• 好JJ,快快回答俺该咋表现,看上面我新贴的问题... -alazycatinsd- ♀ 给 alazycatinsd 发送悄悄话 alazycatinsd 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/24/2007 postreply 20:11:15

• 她的心思快比上林黛玉了:) -esmie- ♀ 给 esmie 发送悄悄话 esmie 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/24/2007 postreply 18:40:47

• If I was a man, I would not be so sure that she -sansemao- ♀ 给 sansemao 发送悄悄话 sansemao 的博客首页 (141 bytes) () 10/24/2007 postreply 20:57:43

• yes. My b/g always tells me confident women are attractive -esmie- ♀ 给 esmie 发送悄悄话 esmie 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/24/2007 postreply 21:10:37

• Sorry...b/f -esmie- ♀ 给 esmie 发送悄悄话 esmie 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/24/2007 postreply 21:11:07

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