A reply to 小桃子妈: My two cents about "钱"

I think having sufficient money is important. If working in the same job in the same location, and having a chance to earn more, who like to give up the chance. That is the reason lots IT professionals (include myself in my earlier years) like to jump to other companies. I am working for my fifth company now. And every time I jump to a new company was for seeking a better pay job. So, you can tell I really cared about money. A lot of my co-workers like to discuss early retirement, children education, over sea vacations, bigger house, all these are directly related to money

I believe most young girls in this earth would like to find a kind, handsome, intelligent and rich young man to be their future hu*****and, So you see, money even play a role in our selection of hu*****and. When I chose a hu*****and (the second time), one of my requirements was that he should at least making the same amount of salary like I did. But whether he is sincere, honesty, attraction, kind (one of them is whether he could do house work) were always come before how much money he could make.

As you know, in the reality, companies don't hand out free money to their employee. And super rich, handsome young CEOs are not going to fall in love with any girl easily. They might enjoy to play around more (I never intent to date any of them, so this is only my assumption). I think living in the fantasy world is the last thing that i could enjoy. I always put my dignity above money. I will never give up my moral because of his big pay check. On the other hand, if let me give up my family life only for earning more money, I will never do that either.

Plus, I think talking about digits all the time, and use that as a only standard to select hu*****and seem a bit lack of taste. Maybe, that is because that I am a old fashion Chinese woman.

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• Ding.. -简娜- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 11:14:24

• 我觉得我们都不是OLD FASHION，你讲的很有道理的。 -小桃子妈- ♀ (46 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 11:16:52

• 你的assumption是阻碍你的原因喽，举个例子来说吧 -acme- ♀ (408 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 11:24:17

• Sure, the young girls can try, but just don't waste -gzlady- ♀ (375 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 11:35:40

• "not only Chinese women like to marry rich guys" -acme- ♀ (240 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 11:39:28

• Totally agree with you! -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 11:29:09

• 回复：A reply to 小桃子妈: My two cents about "钱" -gp88- ♀ (225 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 11:35:31

• 你要是百万了，我们先把你给抢了，呵呵。 -小桃子妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 11:39:27

• 哎呀，早年在国内的时候，我们说，能当个百万富翁， -sansemao- ♀ (243 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 11:54:36

• 一看你的豪宅，我就先跟你断了。 -小桃子妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 11:58:53

• 你？为啥跟我断？俺可是只好猫呀。有钱有色猫有好。嘿嘿。你图我那样都行。 -sansemao- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 12:09:34

• 你要confused,建议试试性别相同的，先。;-D -acme- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 11:42:46

• Thank you for all your replies, I need to go back to -gzlady- ♀ (109 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 12:05:53

• Cannot agree with you more. There are too many young -kose- ♀ (463 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 12:30:17

• Thank you, I am glad that we think alike :) -gzlady- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/02/2007 postreply 04:42:50