Some men are like that especially when they have had

quite some sex partners before the marriage. If I were you, I would first talk with him openly on sex issue, just to find out 1) he wants to have sex, but not with you 2) he does not want to have sex with any woman anyway. Some men do have problem with having sex with the same sex partner for years. But this is not your problem.

If you have had a good relationship, the other thing you can do is to visit sex therapy. If you have some issues of relationship, you may want to see the couple therapy first to work the problems through, then per the therapy's suggestion, visiting the sex therapy.

It is not easy, and I guess it would be hard for other people to give any suggestion before you and your hubby find out the problems of your own.

It seems that both of you are bored in the relationship. It is pretty sad. Are the marriages like that?

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• 回复：Some men are like that especially when they have had -Blacky- ♀ (174 bytes) () 12/16/2006 postreply 16:19:58

• My pleasure. We have similar problem. -sansemao- ♀ (185 bytes) () 12/16/2006 postreply 16:27:11

• 回复：My pleasure. We have similar problem. -Blacky- ♀ (193 bytes) () 12/16/2006 postreply 16:38:54