Sometimes is not because they are mean to you

来源: sansemao 于 2006-12-16 13:19:43 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : 0 (510 bytes)
回答: week 9 fighsty pregnant woman 由 Chynna 于 2006-12-16 12:33:04

it is because we are too nice to them while putting ourselves in the difficult situation. In that way, we may build up the resentment. Sooner or later, this resentment will come out, then in that case, we will all think we are victims.

Try to be VERY nice to ourselves, and be straight forward to people but not rude. If they are really our friends, they will understand, and they will come back in a good manner. Most of them do mean to hurt us or take advantage of us.

Good luck, and be happy

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