It is OK to give him back the ring, if the engagement is called

If the love does not exist any more, why do you need to keep the ring? A friend of mine, a Chinese, after broke up with his fianc閑, another Chinese, he threw the diamond ring that she returned to him into a lake. Think of this, if the engagement is called off, that is his big lost too. You need to have more confident for yourself.
If I were you, I would tell him that I don't need a very expansive ring; I'd rather use some extra money to build a cozy home together. Anyway, you need to make him believe that you are not a gold digger; you care about both of your being together, instead of that ring.

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• Man, if this Chinese guy never regret afterwards, the ring -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (40 bytes) () 08/18/2006 postreply 12:52:17

• No, not that cheap, it was 1 ct. -gzlady- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2006 postreply 13:09:16

• 保证不是Tiffany, 如果是，看他还扔不扔！ -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2006 postreply 13:46:40

• You are right, it was not Tiffany -gzlady- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2006 postreply 18:08:41

• 不敢苟同。男人要是真生气，什么事也能做出来。国男尤其不在乎财物。 -~v~- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2006 postreply 13:12:11

• Then, all I can say is HE IS STUPID. -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (128 bytes) () 08/18/2006 postreply 13:25:38

• Love is priceless -gzlady- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2006 postreply 13:37:02

• 人家姑娘不是告诉他不爱不结婚了吗，还什么 Love is priceless　呢？ -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (46 bytes) () 08/18/2006 postreply 13:42:43

• i mean: 不在乎财物，在乎占有。你那卖戒指的想法是老外的想法。 -~v~- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2006 postreply 13:41:48

• 我是老中，我就这么想。 -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2006 postreply 13:44:22

• 我是说，老外男人卖戒指，老中男人扔戒指，因为他不能占有她，气得 -~v~- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2006 postreply 14:03:45

• 那老中小度量嘛。哈哈。 -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2006 postreply 14:05:57

• 臭臭妈妈非要逼我把实话说出来，引来砖头的话，你替我顶着。 -~v~- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2006 postreply 14:12:44

• No problem. Hahahaha -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2006 postreply 14:17:18

• I should have had ask him to give me that ring before -gzlady- ♀ (136 bytes) () 08/18/2006 postreply 15:52:36

• I agree -lucky_wife- ♀ (101 bytes) () 08/18/2006 postreply 13:59:53