双语文摘: Differences Bewteen Friendship and Love

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Both are so much related to each other. And both are so dissimilar! What are the differences between friendship and love? Is platonic friendship possible between persons of opposite sex? Let us try and understand.

What is friendship? Why do we call a person our friend? When do we call someone a very good friend? If we care for a person, if we are always ready to help that person and if we share most of our thoughts with a person, they are our good friends. We can always count upon our good friends in an emergency. We are always sure that our friend will understand why we acted in a certain way. We need not explain anything to our very good friends. The friendship is so deep and the relationship is so intimate, that most of the things are automatically understood by our friends.

What about love? In a relationship of deep love, all the sharing that we discussed above are taken for granted. But love transcends all this. During love, we are attached with a particular person, while in friendship, one may have many friends. A loving relationship makes one so much attached to the other, that one gets pained if his/her beloved is hurt! Love also involves a physical element. Friendship does not have that. This is a vital difference. Nature gives us love so that the specie can go forward. Nature does not give us friendship.

Your heart beats will never increase in anticipation of meeting your friend. You will not lie awake at night thinking about your friend. You will not feel totally lost, if you don't meet your friend for a few days. You will not have dreams in your eyes thinking about your friend. But in love, you will do all this and much more. Indeed, there is no comparison between love and friendship.

兩者都是這麼多相互關聯的。又都是如此不同！有什麼區別友誼和愛情？可能是柏拉圖式的友誼人之間的異性？讓我們了解一下。

什麼是友誼？為什麼一個人，我們呼籲我們的朋友？當我們要求別人做一個很好的朋友嗎？如果我們照顧一個人，如果我們隨時準備幫助這個人，如果我們同意，我們最想法的人，他們是我們的好朋友。我們總是可以指望的，我們的好朋友在緊急情況下。我們一直相信，我們的朋友會明白，為什麼我們採取某種方式。我們不需要說明什麼，我們非常好的朋友。友誼是如此之深，這種關係非常密切，因為大部分的東西都是自動理解我們的朋友。

愛情是什麼？在深情的關係，所有的共享，我們上面討論的是理所當然的。但是愛超越一切。在愛，我們重視與某個人，而在友誼，有可能有很多朋友。建立一個充滿愛心的關係，令人如此重視，另一方面，一個得到心疼，如果他/她心愛的傷害！洛夫也涉及有形要素。友誼不是這個。這是一個重要的區別。大自然給予我們的愛，使物種可以前進。大自然並沒有賦予我們的友誼。

你的心跳不會增加預期的會議你的朋友。你不會說謊夜不能寐想到你的朋友。你不會感到完全失去了，如果你不能滿足你的朋友幾天。你不能有夢想，你的眼睛在想你的朋友。但在愛，你會做的事等等。事實上，沒有對比愛情和友誼。

周華健 - 朋友

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• 双语文摘: How Friendship Nurtures Love -北京二号- ♀ (5434 bytes) () 01/23/2010 postreply 05:47:49

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