APAD: One hand washes the other

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Meaning: mutual cooperation can help both parties.

 

It is similar to other proverbs, like "one good turn deserves another" and "you

scratch my back and I'll scrtach yours."

 

- www.phrases.org.uk

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I first heard this in Malcolm X, the 1992 movie which I watched dozens of times.

Malcolm, after helping growing the Nation of Islam from 500 to 30,000 members

over ten years, found out about its leader(Elijah Muhammad)'s affairs. Crushed,

he turned to Brother Baines, an old comrade from their prison days and a senior

member of the Nation, who explained:

    "Now, about our coming up in the world a little. The Nation's grown. We've

    grown with it. You know our people. They want their leaders to be

    prosperous. One hand washes the other."

 

and later

    "Do you know your Bible? David slept with Bathsheba, but he's remembered for

    slaying Goliath. Noah was accused of drunkenness, but God gave him the ark.

    Solomon had 700 wives but he was the greatest, wisest king in history."

 

and

    "The great man's deeds outweigh his personal weaknesses."

 

The scripts come mostly from "The Autobiography of Malcolm X," an enlightening

read.

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Learned it here the 1st time. Thx. 有一点儿“君子和而不同”的意思吗? -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 09:15:15

People may have very different understanding of greatness. -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 09:16:15

4 me personally, 人品比“伟大”更重要,but it's IMHO only. ;-) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 09:17:41

Malcolm thought so and he was kicked out and assassinated. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 09:22:10

He thought 人品 a necessary condition for 伟大. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 09:23:42

Sounds to me more like "互相吹捧" Nothing 君子 about it :-) -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 09:19:47

哦,那就比较类似“小人同而不和”的意思了吧。;-) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 10:21:36

That sounds closer :-) -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 10:27:53

Especially David, 2 me is a biblical bug. muder, adultery, -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 09:39:35

King David commit more than 1 crimes against 10 commandments -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 09:41:24

David's son commit adultery to his wives is what? punish? -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 09:54:00

God punished David by smiting his first son with Bathsheba. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 10:08:07

圣经说上帝托梦所罗门国王,问他需要什么,所罗门回答我想要有能够使得所有犹太子民都愿意服从上帝的能力 -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 09:45:23

上帝说既然你这么说话,把信奉上帝放在任何个人利益之前,我就给你无穷的财富与智慧,可所罗门娶了各种不同的信仰的女人 -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 09:48:15

这些老婆也崇拜上帝之外各种神,所罗门腐败了,上帝对所罗门的保佑到他这一代截止了。 -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 09:50:12

It sounded like God was double-crossed by Solomon :-)) -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 10:29:36

你对圣经故事很熟哈。我不信宗教,也没去细读别人(在我刚到加拿大时)给的圣经。在想是不是可以当“历史” ;-) 书去读读? -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 11:25:54

旧约让人读的很沮丧,感觉犹太人或者说人类就象扶不上墙的烂泥,只要上帝一松手,人类就开始拉跨 -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 16:20:58

应该不只是犹太人,人性都一样的。所以需要被救赎。 -盈盈一笑间- 给 盈盈一笑间 发送悄悄话 盈盈一笑间 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/09/2024 postreply 04:57:23

Do something in return. 礼尚往来 -妖妖灵- 给 妖妖灵 发送悄悄话 妖妖灵 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 10:16:52

A positive spin from a positive surgeon:-) -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 10:27:19

Blogging in his eye is like “u scratch my back and I‘ll...“ -暖冬cool夏- 给 暖冬cool夏 发送悄悄话 暖冬cool夏 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 10:28:51

Did you mean "log" instead of blogging? -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 10:38:49

I did mean ‘writing a blog at WXC“. He is never supportive:) -暖冬cool夏- 给 暖冬cool夏 发送悄悄话 暖冬cool夏 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 11:18:52

I see. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 16:15:47

占位点赞。周五愉快。:) -盈盈一笑间- 给 盈盈一笑间 发送悄悄话 盈盈一笑间 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 10:33:45

女神节快乐 :-)) -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 10:39:21

:)) -盈盈一笑间- 给 盈盈一笑间 发送悄悄话 盈盈一笑间 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 16:43:19

Quid pro quo. -akc- 给 akc 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 10:41:37

Yes. Neutral and more about the transaction side. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 10:50:51

很形象。以前中国大澡堂里常有的事。所以现在发明了各种工具。 -天边一片白云- 给 天边一片白云 发送悄悄话 天边一片白云 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 17:07:24

从没想到澡堂,还真是。哈哈! -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 17:50:19

People cover each other's back? -盈盈一笑间- 给 盈盈一笑间 发送悄悄话 盈盈一笑间 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 17:08:36

Part of the deal. Sure:-)) -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/08/2024 postreply 17:51:44

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