get me through this trouble !

having totally different opinions from LG on how to get along with people. He always let me lose face in front of people, no matter whoever they are, my friends or his friends. Just find that since the marriage, we fought against each other a lot because of this issue, the trouble is still there after 12 years' marriage.

Now I want to let him free, let him do whatever he likes in the front of people (I mean when we have parties, or with other people together), because it is so hard to change him, and also hurt me. Just endure this, and do whatever I like, career-oriented, and pay more attention to my son, is my idea OK?

THANKS

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What did he do? For example? -岁月的车轮- 给 岁月的车轮 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/09/2007 postreply 13:26:32

回复:What did he do? For example? -7894- 给 7894 发送悄悄话 (292 bytes) () 01/09/2007 postreply 13:28:23

If he has been doing this for more than 12 years -岁月的车轮- 给 岁月的车轮 发送悄悄话 (150 bytes) () 01/09/2007 postreply 13:34:32

你老公大概是即不会呵护老婆又不太会查颜观色的那种男人 -click3- 给 click3 发送悄悄话 (80 bytes) () 01/09/2007 postreply 13:45:14

you are totally correct ! -7894- 给 7894 发送悄悄话 (99 bytes) () 01/09/2007 postreply 13:53:53

男人嘛,重要的是要看他的事业心及业绩,也就是有没有正是,其他麻 -click3- 给 click3 发送悄悄话 (37 bytes) () 01/09/2007 postreply 14:12:17

这样的老公往往小时候得到父母过分呵护,很难容忍以别人为中心 -katies- 给 katies 发送悄悄话 (60 bytes) () 01/09/2007 postreply 14:12:34

我跟你相反的意见 -goingplace- 给 goingplace 发送悄悄话 goingplace 的博客首页 (114 bytes) () 01/09/2007 postreply 14:28:42

agree with you ! -7894- 给 7894 发送悄悄话 (26 bytes) () 01/09/2007 postreply 14:35:00

big boy, never grow up ! -7894- 给 7894 发送悄悄话 (42 bytes) () 01/09/2007 postreply 13:55:28

那你就给他点胡罗卜.他在场的时候,先吹捧他一番,再谈自己:) -老别- 给 老别 发送悄悄话 老别 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/09/2007 postreply 14:20:16

My LG does not know how -kaimom- 给 kaimom 发送悄悄话 (396 bytes) () 01/09/2007 postreply 13:41:31

big hug ! -7894- 给 7894 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/09/2007 postreply 13:54:25

My two cents -sophiemm- 给 sophiemm 发送悄悄话 (597 bytes) () 01/09/2007 postreply 14:21:05

well said! -goingplace- 给 goingplace 发送悄悄话 goingplace 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/09/2007 postreply 14:24:44

你有没有常常在外人面前夸奖他? -britannica- 给 britannica 发送悄悄话 britannica 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/09/2007 postreply 14:22:29

thanks,all. Now I understand what I should do ! -7894- 给 7894 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/09/2007 postreply 14:36:09

回复:thanks,all. Now I understand what I should do ! -IDless- 给 IDless 发送悄悄话 (255 bytes) () 01/09/2007 postreply 15:59:12

thanks all, I see now. good night ! -7894- 给 7894 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/09/2007 postreply 14:36:38

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