I used to want to change some aspects of my hu*****and too, but later gave that up. Because I realized it's too hard to change a person's personality and natures. There's no need to change him to fit into my style, in the mean time get myself frustrated. Like I said to my friends, you are married to a hu*****and, not married to a son to teach him how to grow up. So most of the time just let him be himself, and learn to appreciate his other good aspects. But if what he did really affend you, then talk to him like a man how you don't appreciate his behaviors. Nagging usually don't work on man.
My two cents
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• well said! -goingplace- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/09/2007 postreply 14:24:44