Life is more than 'BaGua'. I think that you must have nothing to do, so choose to spend all your time and attention on other's private life.
I adivse you to do something meaninful and care more about people's life on a higher stage, inspire and encourage others instead of only focusing on the dark side of life, unless your life is in shade so can not see the sunny side of life.
Feel sorry for you.
Talk something positive or shut up!