回复：要强的女人其实是个悲剧，除非能找到比她更要强的男人，可男人都不喜欢要强的女人

要强的女人 vs 独立的女人, 是两回事.

 

I disagree the tendency to blame women to be independent. I believe no matter man or woman, we have to be spiritually independent in the relationship, or the balance will be a problem like mine, though we cannot change the physical nature of our gender, but mentally we must be independent or the other one will be so tired,m like me.