89MM,很理解你的意思, 刚刚结束一段感情的人, 容易

出现找rebound relationship的情况. 不过, VV MM的CASE, 即便是离婚刚刚才Finalized 下来, 不意味着他和他EX的感情是刚刚才结束的.

离婚是件很耗时间, 耗感情的事. 但是, 双方当事人是的确可能都已经在双方感情的问题上已经都MOVE ON了好久了, 离婚都没完全办好的呢.

絮我直言, 提醒提点一下是很有帮助. 不过, 如果一再强调这一点, 就很可能让LZ MM觉得你jump 到了conclusion, 而感觉不舒服了.

对与VV MM的CASE, 不知道背景, 如果我可以给建议的话, 我觉得她可以把自己心理的不舒服坦诚地跟他谈, 看他的想法再做结论不迟. 其实, 单从这文字看, VV MM是多么的不愿意那晚离开, 说不定是放在了心里, 她BF并不是那么了解的. 两个人的关系中, 猜来猜去是很费神的, 摊开来谈的过程, 其实对双方理清思路都有好处的.

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• You are absolutely right! I know in this case I said it too -1800900- ♀ (346 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 13:02:05

• I'm happy that I did not offend you. :) -longhair- ♀ (221 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 13:06:41

• I didn't know that you are one of those lucky ones :-) -1800900- ♀ (131 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 13:16:52

• MM, you are very cute :) -longhair- ♀ (225 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 13:22:39

• Can I still find your posts (your story)? If you can give me -1800900- ♀ (18 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 13:31:18

• 回复：Can I still find your posts (your story)? If you can give me -longhair- ♀ (88 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 13:33:07

• Thanks ^_^ ^_^^_^ -1800900- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 13:36:11