When you are critical of yourself,

本帖于 2024-04-30 18:43:52 时间, 由普通用户 One1618 编辑

 

you feel secure.

In your childhood, there might be someone (like your parents) who was critical.  You developed a reflex of being critical toward yourself in order to gain approval from that person thus feeling secure.

 

 

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我父母是典型东亚父母,比较critical.但是我并不感觉舒服啊,感觉无助和虚弱。 -DoraDora2008- 给 DoraDora2008 发送悄悄话 DoraDora2008 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/30/2024 postreply 19:20:16

One can feel powerless but secure. -One1618- 给 One1618 发送悄悄话 (379 bytes) () 04/30/2024 postreply 19:49:44

我对别人挺宽容的,对自己还是比较苛刻吧 -DoraDora2008- 给 DoraDora2008 发送悄悄话 DoraDora2008 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/30/2024 postreply 21:24:32

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