我觉得黑人白人中国人都有出轨的前例，不应以人种为根据吧。女人也有出轨的。

如果你经济上可以，暂时可先不忙于结交新的男友。给自己一段时间，好好想想什么样的生活是你想要的。在做打算。my hu*****and suggests that thinking what is the best interest of your child, not yours, not your hu*****ands. if you decides that the best interest for the child is to live with you, then as many sisters above suggested: to find a man loves you and who can accept your child.