事情是这样的:
他那天晚上在床上玩手机,我要看他干什么,他不肯,我的好奇心促使,半夜三更的看了他的手机,发现他的text里有跟一个小他很多的年轻女孩的通信,那女孩寄给他很多bikini的相片和一个PG13的她自己录的她自己的video,他也call她: I love u, wife, I am going to marry you and have 8 kids
我当时还shock, 把他叫醒,问是什么回事,他说,他跟她认识在我之前,但他们之间就是talking trash, 连手都没碰过,还坚决要我打她电话问情况,帮我拨了她电话。半夜三更的当然没人接,第二天那女孩打过来,我问他们之间到底怎么回事,她说:we love each other just like brothers and sisters do。我说: do you send your brothers PG 13 pictures and videos? 她说: yes. 她还告诉我,她已经订婚,text有时候是她fiance发的。看来,他们要不是奇葩,要不是把我当傻瓜。
男朋友这几天也很愧疚,他说:
Words cannot explain how upset I am at the matter at hand. Not only have I hurt you and shown what type of terrible person I could be, but I have also managed to fall into every suspicion you have had about me. I know it is going to take time for you to forgive me and nothing will happen over night. I just thought that by putting my feelings in a letter and sending it to you would at least help you understand me better.From the bottom of my heart, I wish to express my deepest apologies for mistreating you and breaking your trust. I was selfish, I was immature and decided not to think before I acted. You are the world to me, and your worth in my eyes is so significantly greater than any other woman that they seem utterly irrelevant in your wake. I will never be able to forgive myself for my actions and the pain that I put you through.It would be a false statement to proclaim that you do not deserve better. I know you are probably thoroughly enraged at my actions and unwilling to be in my presence, but I simply wish to express that I am positive that I can provide you with what you truly deserve. I am a true believer in forgiveness, and if provided with a second opportunity, I would not fail to make the world up to you. I assure you that I will be the man you want me to be.
我真的不想继续了,但他怎么都不肯离开,我怎么说他都没关系,就是抓住我不肯放手。还当着我的面发了text给那女孩,意思是,他们之间的friendship must come to an end, 因为他disrespect他girlfriend, 发了三次。
我想原谅他,但我发现很难,我也不想要过猜猜测测的生活。
大家怎么看?