手机,刚结婚的时候,我无聊的时候就看我老公的手机,通常是偷偷看,有次被他逮着了,就被他骂,教育我说:“Everyone has privacy, this is not respectful to me”“okay, okay, calm down, that’s not a big deal, you can see mine” “I don’t want to.” He replies. 昨天早上,他突然找不到手机了,发现留在了楼下电脑旁,我呢,一早就在那儿玩电脑了。看了他马上说: “I swear I didn’t check your mobile phone” 他回答说:“That’s good““那我要吃糖”他啼笑皆非,指着我们coffe table上的糖果说: “Go ahead” “okay”我就真走过去,拿了颗糖果,吃了起来,他翻了翻白眼,走开了。后来发现,人人都有小秘密,不愿意和人分享的那部分,除了不要去打破沙锅问到底,也不要去想尽方法的去偷窥,不然弄的人恼羞成怒,那真是很没意思。再亲密的两人,相处起来都需要自己的空间。
晚上睡觉我很爱卷被子,通常早上起来他都没被子,有一次,我早上起来,发现盖的被子,质感不对,再仔细一看,是他的浴巾!!“Babie, why I have your bath towel here on the bed” “Coz I’m cold, and you always take all the Comforter ”自此,晚上偶尔醒来,发现他没被子,我就给他盖一点过去。
我妈刚结婚那会儿,常会送菜过来,说我上班辛苦,回家还要忙着煮饭,不如吃妈妈做好的。他很不高兴,我妈走了之后,他说; “this is not right, she should know that you should learn how to take care of yourself including have to cook after work” “但这是父母的一片心意啊”“What?” “o, I said it shows how much she loves me” “Yeah, but you’re not a babie anymore, you’re a adult and married, can’t she realize that?”“okay, fine...” “I understand she left you when you was a teenager. She can’t treat you as a teenager anymore when you already grew up out of that period of time even though she may want to make it up to you.” “Okay, okay… why don’t you tell her not to bring dishes to us” “I think it will be better if you can say it to her” “… …, fine, I’ll tell her next time”
我老公很喜欢吃Korean Pear, 下班我就常去买一大箱的Korean Pear还要有K Pear标志的那种。回来晚饭后,就切给他吃,一开始,他很爱,后来连吃三个礼拜,他见到korean pear 就完全没有想吃的愿望了。 “Hey, babie, I’ll buy a box of Korean pear tomorrow for you” “No, please don’t, I’m sick of it” “Really, but I thought you loved it” “Yeah, but you gave me too much” “That’s because I love you” “No, you ruined my desir for one of my favorite fruit” “Sorry” 我才明白,爱一个人,什么都适度就好,不然,即使当时他看上是你的美貌,你又很会打扮,久而久之,对男人来说再漂亮也还是会有审美疲劳的。那就找点其他的亮点来吸引他,因为女人除了漂亮,女人还可以可爱、性感、浪漫、体贴、有内涵...不一一举例了,自己动脑筋想吧。