ZT--10 Adult Problems That People Were Not Prepared For

上周就读到这篇，马上跟家里的男娃分享

咱们做父母的， 争取早点给孩子们expose 一些人生可能会有的困难和挫折

1. Going from having tons of friends to really having no one.

2. How  dark life actually is. Like, is this all we do, just grind away at jobs we try to care about, but no one else cares about, barely able to afford our bills/houses/debts, constantly struggling with relationships and trauma and watching our political system fail us, our country fail us, our systems fail us, like... this life is not what happy, adolescent me dreamed it would be

3. How ignorant so many people are. And seemingly pleased with being so

4. How often you have to clean to maintain a clean house.

5. Aging parents

6. Cliques and bullies are just as bad in the office as they were in school.

7. Dealing with untreated childhood trauma.

8. Losing people. Loved ones passing away is the hardest. Then there’s the nasty breakdown of personal relationships, family relationships and friendships. Then there’s the sad drifting apart that happens when life takes you on a different path to a person you were once really close to.

9. Deciding what to eat for 3 meals a day 7 days a week

10. Back hurting just from sleeping wrong

https://www.boredpanda.com/adult-problem-you-not-prepared-for/

 

所有跟帖： 

• 你真是个好妈妈 -gzlady- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/27/2021 postreply 09:57:01

• +100 -Speedy2426- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/27/2021 postreply 10:00:37

• 第九也是问题？：） -purple123- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/27/2021 postreply 11:00:13

• 小时候都是吃爸妈做的饭，以后吃餐厅，再以后才要自己操心啊：) -GoGym- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/27/2021 postreply 11:26:50

• 所以自由也是烦恼 ：） -purple123- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/27/2021 postreply 11:29:56

• 对呀，自由的代价：) -GoGym- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/27/2021 postreply 11:36:56

• 今天我都还想念国内念大学的食堂呢 -糯米粥- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/27/2021 postreply 12:53:43

• 也可以从小就让孩子自己决定啊。。 -桃子苹果- ♀ (95 bytes) () 10/27/2021 postreply 11:39:44

• 跟孩子们分享一些生活中发生的事， -桃子苹果- ♀ (233 bytes) () 10/27/2021 postreply 11:32:27

• 跟孩子们聊很有意思，可以看到不同的世界 -糯米粥- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/27/2021 postreply 12:54:43