刚看到这个建议比较好， 转过来。

The rules of dating should be fairly simple. If you ask someone out, you are paying. If you get asked out, they are paying. If, towards the end of a date, you feel that you don't want to see the person again, then offer to pay halves; a polite way of letting them know you're not interested. If you ARE interested, simply say "I'll pay next time!" Problem solved.

 

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• 别那么死板吧，见机行事。。。每个人又不是一个模子出来的 -螺丝螺帽- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/14/2017 postreply 11:24:43

• 德国人... :-)) -桃花好运- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/14/2017 postreply 11:25:09

• +1 -Xueronghua- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/14/2017 postreply 11:26:49

• 得先有个指导方针才能灵活运用，否则瞎打瞎撞 -SleepyLagoon- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/14/2017 postreply 11:29:52

• 我覺的是對的. 曾經有個男人, 英國人一個COMPOSER約我, -披星帶月- ♀ (274 bytes) () 02/14/2017 postreply 11:34:14

• 你都不喜欢他了， 还请他喝酒? 没必要吧， 一顿饭钱也没什么了不起， 你还花时间陪他吃饭了呢。 -月如霜- ♀ (270 bytes) () 02/14/2017 postreply 11:39:47

• 這是娩轉的拒絕, 我通常對男生都這樣子. 沒好感的, 就不相欠, 甚至一次飯. -披星帶月- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/14/2017 postreply 11:55:10

• 我一講請他飲酒, 主要是用詞, I treat you..... Not let's go to pub. 他己明白了. -披星帶月- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/14/2017 postreply 11:56:48

• 你这么说很明显是对他有意思，你再想想 -lookatme..- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/14/2017 postreply 12:36:04

• 啊，多姿多彩的单身世界。。。 -alazycatinsd- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/14/2017 postreply 11:40:01

• 啊，回错啦，是回楼主的；） -alazycatinsd- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/14/2017 postreply 11:40:36

• ^_^ -披星帶月- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/14/2017 postreply 11:55:41

• 我觉得是人家没意思才会尴尬的，吃完饭去pub是增进了解，否则之间就再见了 -lookatme..- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/14/2017 postreply 12:33:46