yes, my H know.

But what to report to police? midnight poems, early morning greetings, thoughts during the day through text and email, then following me in gym. That's pretty much all so far.  Not sure that's criminal than annoying and disrespectful...

That's why i think i can handle it, no needs to blow things out of proportion. But i need to be prepared for things getting worse, so  I came here for ideas.

所有跟帖： 

• If you clearly told him "stop", 诗也好问候也好都是骚扰。 -2008VGirl- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/29/2016 postreply 15:53:22

• 骚扰 yes, bad enough to report to police? --worldance-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/29/2016 postreply 15:55:56

• 先HR，HR不作为再报警。任何让你不舒服的行为都应该停止。 -2008VGirl- ♀ (61 bytes) () 12/29/2016 postreply 15:59:24

• hm, i'll warn him again before i take that step. --worldance-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/29/2016 postreply 16:09:44

• 你是吴娜吗？不知为什么你在这件事上让我想起她，只不过她以前在这儿都是用中文发帖 -2008VGirl- ♀ (32 bytes) () 12/29/2016 postreply 16:16:08

• don't know this ID. --worldance-- ♀ (278 bytes) () 12/29/2016 postreply 16:24:55

• 我没有建议报警因为听你说的这些HR 足够了。 -冷月亮~~- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/29/2016 postreply 16:32:54

• based on the guy's personality & --worldance-- ♀ (384 bytes) () 12/29/2016 postreply 16:52:31

• 报告HR一般是最有效的还不用自己与人正面冲突。要碰上我 -冷月亮~~- ♀ (38 bytes) () 12/29/2016 postreply 16:57:26

• 没法说了，你到底是想解决问题还是不想？大家给的建议 -2008VGirl- ♀ (104 bytes) () 12/29/2016 postreply 16:58:26

• You guys are all corp thinking, HR is the company police --worldance-- ♀ (173 bytes) () 12/29/2016 postreply 17:08:01

• 你自己制止不了他，又不让老公出手又觉得组织也起不了作用 -2008VGirl- ♀ (35 bytes) () 12/29/2016 postreply 17:12:54

• well, if i only want him get away from my life, --worldance-- ♀ (236 bytes) () 12/29/2016 postreply 17:19:31

• 我觉得我和你不在一个频道上，我可能不了解你的环境，不多说了希望你顺利解决问题。 -2008VGirl- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/29/2016 postreply 17:27:36

• 越说越想坑啦。还是到此为止吧，呵呵。 -冷月亮~~- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/29/2016 postreply 17:43:38

• it's interesting that how different mindsets can influence --worldance-- ♀ (108 bytes) () 12/29/2016 postreply 19:22:01

• 是很有趣。 -冷月亮~~- ♀ (255 bytes) () 12/30/2016 postreply 05:20:27

• 还有， 找HR第一目的是Stop him。 -冷月亮~~- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/30/2016 postreply 05:31:55

• With his personality, he could quit job tomorrow --worldance-- ♀ (432 bytes) () 12/30/2016 postreply 08:05:28

• 就因为你和他在gym里聊了两句就出来这些drama? -冷月亮~~- ♀ (113 bytes) () 12/30/2016 postreply 08:44:14

• come on, 50+, how much beauty left? --worldance-- ♀ (455 bytes) () 12/30/2016 postreply 09:39:43

• Awww... how sweet:)) -冷月亮~~- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/30/2016 postreply 11:49:24

• 相信你一定还是很美，什么时候给奔一个。 -冷月亮~~- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/30/2016 postreply 11:58:44