Thanks.

I don;t know how many errands I had done for them.  They don't normally ask my sister since she would just say no.  Every time after something is done, they would tell me "We could have done it without you." 
This has gone for more than six years now.  So i have done some self-reflections.  Is that worthwhile to be nice to selfish parents?  My time and energy is limited.  I spent time for them, and that is going to decrease the responsibility I have for my kid.

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• 是这样的话：我会在付出前问一下：你们肯定 -- 你们一定要我帮忙？ -螺丝螺帽- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/27/2014 postreply 16:24:29

• Thanks. -joeyli- ♀ (331 bytes) () 04/27/2014 postreply 16:34:48

• 那你就要求， 他们说声：感谢！你也可以说感谢；感谢他们生你， 养你！ -螺丝螺帽- ♀ (55 bytes) () 04/27/2014 postreply 16:44:10

• 说句过头点的话，如果我出生之前知道会是这样的结果，我一定不会选择出生。 -hany- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/27/2014 postreply 16:54:13

• 说句让他们吐血的话：--我又没要求你生我出来， 你生了， 你就欠我的。呵呵！ -螺丝螺帽- ♀ (50 bytes) () 04/27/2014 postreply 16:58:39

• 我觉得北方的强势的多，据我知道的不多的样本 -螺丝螺帽- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/27/2014 postreply 17:08:03

• 你这是在挖苦我吧。说实在的，我哪敢有这个奢求，觉得他们欠我的。我只求这辈子能还清他们的情债，我也就可以瞑目了 -hany- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/27/2014 postreply 17:05:23

• 我不仅是这么想的，而且是以实际行动这么做的呀，只是这个实际行动是以牺牲我个人的生活为代价而已。 -hany- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/27/2014 postreply 17:09:38

• Not a good idea -joeyli- ♀ (199 bytes) () 04/27/2014 postreply 17:18:35