你给mixed signal, 一下distant, 一下要求人家对你怎么样的。
I don't think he understands why you are distant, why you all of sudden get close. He cannot read your mind. I really don't think he understands what you want. He does not know what he said or how he acted upset you or cause you to be upset with him. So all of your actions of getting upset at him, or any of your feelings, he has no idea.
1. know what you want
2. communicate clearly