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I know.  Thanks.  I think I handle things OK for the most part.  It is only when my parents say sth bad or hurtful, then I start to feel really bad.

This does not happen too often. 

I don't expect a man to solve my problems.  I really don't think I can find someone I like who is bilingual and can relieve some work I do.  Chances are very small. I do hope to have a man I like, though.  I have met a few men who seem to be ideal, but I just did not like them enough to go for more than 2 dates.  So I konw I just have not met Mr. right yet.  When you meet the right person, no problem is going to be a problem.