Definitely hold on to the guy who has a belly. one of your respondents said that there are many nice people, but you have to find the one you like.
This is not true. It is very hard to find someone who is nice to you and who is generous.
you have to show some enthusiam to him now, otherwise someone like him will be taken away soon. So think about getting him a present for the Chinese New year. He is a little bit older than you are, but that should not be a problem if he is healthy.
I seldom respond to posts, but I really have to write to you since" Not many nice men are around" I am sure you know that.