Face Conflict Head-On

"Don't be afraid of conflict."

It's nature to become agitated when you face conflict or disagreement. But when you think about it, conflict is a part of life. It's inescapable.

Approaching conflict with a sense of calmness goes a whole lot further in making peace than getting all worked up.

Abandon the concept of winning and losing when facing a disagreement. Instead, think in term of resolution. Be flexible.

When the other side senses that you're interested in finding a solution, they will be much more agreeable. Rather than confrontation and conflict, you can work together in cooperation to find a solution that suits you both.

Today's affirmation: I approach conflict with a sense of calm.

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• I cannot agree with you more! -beautifulwind- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2011 postreply 22:36:22

• 好文，谢分享。 -纾珈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/21/2011 postreply 13:16:33

• 是你自己原创的啊，真好啊。我啥时候有这个境界啊！ -i999- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/21/2011 postreply 23:37:03