APAD: Envy is rottenness to the bones

本帖于 2025-11-18 07:26:19 时间, 由普通用户 最西边的岛上 编辑

"A sound heart is life to the flesh, But envy is rottenness to the bones."
- Bible: Proverbs 14:30 New King James Version (NKJV)

"Envy is rottenness to the bones" means that a resentful and discontented attitude of envy is destructive and corrupting to a person's entire being, both spiritually and physically. The metaphor illustrates how envy eats away at a person's health and inner strength, causing a slow, internal decay that diminishes joy and leads to self-destruction.

- From online source with editing

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Difference between envy (妒忌) and jealousy (嫉妒):
- Envy is wanting what someone else has;
- Jealousy is when one worries someone will take what
  1. one has or
  2. one thought one had or
  3. one could have had.

I believe one should treasure what one already has and work hard to achieve what one desires, if possible. There is no need to envy anyone, as it will be a waste of one's time, in addition to what stated above.  

So if one cares, be happy for others when others show good qualities and are successful;  If one doesn't care, just be happy with oneself.

Have a good Tuesday. 加油

 

 

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Note: the proverb was discussed once in APAD 2024-07-13. -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2025 postreply 08:32:56

Great to learn a Bible verse. Buddha prescribed:kill desires -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2025 postreply 08:36:57

Desire lies the root of suffer, evolved 2 understand -移花接木- -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2025 postreply 08:45:15

The Good Book + The Bard == endless APADs :-)) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2025 postreply 08:58:00

I thought envy was positive, negative expression is jealous -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2025 postreply 10:58:25

Guess there’re 2sides ofEnvy:羡慕&妒忌。羡慕 is fine, butNot羡慕妒忌恨~~ -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2025 postreply 11:28:34

Thinking again, maybe involution(==内卷)results from envy? Hmm -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2025 postreply 11:36:45

Added: jealousy=嫉妒,different from envy which=妒忌 following 羡慕 -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/19/2025 postreply 01:09:05

实例:因为自己理财,我也常去投坛互动学习。人生不同各有志向,对那里坛友们的财富,我佩服但不在乎也不羡慕,更无妒忌和嫉妒。 -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/19/2025 postreply 04:58:03

Envy is rottenness to the bones,and it harms us from within. -JoyAnna.- 给 JoyAnna. 发送悄悄话 JoyAnna. 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2025 postreply 12:17:05

So the Good Book (= bible) is accurate in this regard! -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/18/2025 postreply 12:36:51

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