Meaning:
The proverb "Faint heart never won fair lady" is a saying that emphasizes the
importance of courage, boldness, and determination in pursuing one's desires,
particularly in matters of love or romance.
Background:
The etymology of this proverb is not attributed to a specific originator but
has become a widely recognized phrase over time.
The proverb can be applied in various contexts beyond romance, as it
underscores the general principle that hesitancy, indecision, or a lack of
boldness are less likely to lead to positive outcomes. It encourages
individuals to seize opportunities, display courage, and persist in their
endeavors to achieve their goals.
- englishdaily626.com [edited]
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As an old hand, Lao Yang, a colleague at my first job, used to lecture us
fresh-out-of-college go-getters: "Ladies have made through a harsher evolution
and handling you is cakewalk for them. If your goal is a happy lasting marriage,
proverbs like 'faint heart never won fair lady' are but sentimental hog-wash
good for nothing but ego massage. Make no mistake that genetically it is the
female that set the rules of the game and the moment you think you 'win,'
especially if you keep thinking in terms of winning and losing, is when the true
battle begins."
