APAD:Quarrels enhance the pleasures of love

Quarrels enhance the pleasures of Love

It suggests that arguments and disagreements between romantic partners, when handled constructively, can actually strengthen and revitalize a relationship, rather than simply being a destructive force. It implies that conflict can be a catalyst for deeper understanding and connection, ultimately enhancing the intensity and depth of the love shared between two people. 

Just as a storm can clear the air, a lovers' quarrel, when resolved, can clear the air between two people, leading to a renewed sense of connection and understanding. Disagreements offer an opportunity for partners to better understand each other's perspectives, needs, and triggers, fostering a deeper, more resilient bond. 

 A healthy relationship doesn't mean a lack of conflict, but rather the ability to navigate those conflicts in a way that strengthens the bond.   However, it's crucial to remember that not all quarrels are beneficial. constructive conflict resolution is key to avoiding damage to the relationship. 

 

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constructive conflict? like True friend stabs U in theFront? -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/07/2025 postreply 11:32:07

An interesting & good one ;-)) Learned & Thx! -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/07/2025 postreply 11:34:22

Wait a minute, where 2 find the constructive conflict? ~~ -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/07/2025 postreply 11:44:44

批评与自我批评?厉害! -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/07/2025 postreply 12:11:24

If it's not enough, fight &don't forget to tap out in time. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/07/2025 postreply 12:15:54

Wise advice!! ;-)) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/07/2025 postreply 12:26:11

哪有天下夫妻不吵架的?花木兄说得在理。太相敬如宾的不见得就是好夫妻:) -暖冬cool夏- 给 暖冬cool夏 发送悄悄话 暖冬cool夏 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/07/2025 postreply 14:01:45

Beauty comes in all shapes&sizes, so is relationship,IMHO:-) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/07/2025 postreply 14:10:04

Totally agree! Disagreement is part of marriage. -硅谷居士- 给 硅谷居士 发送悄悄话 硅谷居士 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/07/2025 postreply 14:13:36

Been there done that, but seldomly&never last more than 1hr~ -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/07/2025 postreply 14:17:13

Really? Lots of Quarrels with my hubby. -天边一片白云- 给 天边一片白云 发送悄悄话 天边一片白云 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/07/2025 postreply 14:52:01

hush ... be quiet :-)) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/07/2025 postreply 14:54:33

haha. 家丑不外扬。 -天边一片白云- 给 天边一片白云 发送悄悄话 天边一片白云 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/07/2025 postreply 15:15:43

If U didn't mind speaking out here, it can't be bad ;-) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/07/2025 postreply 15:31:51

To quarrel is to care,otherwise, I’d just ignore. -妖妖灵- 给 妖妖灵 发送悄悄话 妖妖灵 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/07/2025 postreply 16:32:34

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