APAD: Old habits die hard


"Old habits die hard" means it is difficult to stop doing things that you have been doing for a long time, even if you want to. It highlights the challenge of breaking ingrained behaviors due to familiarity and comfort.

The idiom acknowledges that breaking old habits is often a struggle, even when a person consciously desires to change and emphasizes the effort and persistence required to change deeply rooted patterns.

- From dear Google with editing
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Last APAD from 7G reminded me of the 70's and maybe early 80s back home: cooking oil, egg, meat, rice/flour, sugar, soap, ... etc. were rationed, even in Beijing.

I was young then and cared more about friendship and books, didn't pay much attention to these life basic necessities, and didn't think much when Mom put warm boiled eggs into my hand quietly (I hated fatty meat and refused to eat them, while others loved them due to oil/meat shortage then).

But this morning, when I tried to "merge" the soap ends into a new soap bar as I always do (see pic below), I stopped: that was what Mom used to do during those shortage times!!!  

So all these years, after flying over the oceans and climbing up the mountains, from having nothing to having everything I need, I still do what Mom taught me ... ...

Old habits do die hard!  Sigh ... ... 

Wish you all a good weekend!  

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IMO, many old habits don't need to die at all and long live -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/28/2025 postreply 09:20:23

the art of soap-fusing! -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/28/2025 postreply 09:21:32

Agreed! Altho won't go back 2wash clothes on aWooden board~~ -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/28/2025 postreply 09:39:32

actully did it hoping my hands'd grow bigger,but theyDidn't -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/28/2025 postreply 09:42:39

I've been gripping kimono for 4yrs & my hands look the same. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/28/2025 postreply 09:49:56

It was vanity, I decided and gave up hoping :-) -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/28/2025 postreply 09:50:39

:-))) exc. hairs/nails keep growing, like it or not ;-) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/28/2025 postreply 09:56:48

Got more examples? ;-)) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/28/2025 postreply 09:43:31

Sure. In another APAD. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/28/2025 postreply 09:45:48

a life wit should be passed on to next generation -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/28/2025 postreply 11:28:30

4 sure & hope young1s will listen after trying their own ;-) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/28/2025 postreply 11:46:27

Some will take a long time and some bloody experience … -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/28/2025 postreply 11:55:01

This is a good habit & needs to pass on:)I am frugal too:) -暖冬cool夏- 给 暖冬cool夏 发送悄悄话 暖冬cool夏 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/28/2025 postreply 11:55:33

Shaking hand MM! Frugal minds think alike too :-)) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/28/2025 postreply 12:00:56

Thx for sharing! 积习难改?积重难返?路径依赖? -硅谷居士- 给 硅谷居士 发送悄悄话 硅谷居士 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/28/2025 postreply 12:32:59

welcome back! Yes, good or bad, habits all die hard ;-) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/28/2025 postreply 13:45:08

改变自己的是神,改变别人的是神经病!哈哈哈。 -硅谷居士- 给 硅谷居士 发送悄悄话 硅谷居士 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/28/2025 postreply 12:33:51

:-))) some can learn but some r truly Incurable!! -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/28/2025 postreply 13:50:43

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