APAD: Give every man thy ear, but few thy voice

"Give every man thy ear, but few thy voice; Take each man's censure, but reserve thy judgment."  - The Bard 

It is a line spoken by "the tedious old fool" Polonius – chief counsellor to the villain Claudius - in Act I, Scene III of Shakespeare's Hamlet.

The phrase implies that it's important to be a good listener and accept criticism but to be cautious and deliberate when expressing your own opinions or judgments.

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Wise words from the Bard of Avon again!  

One thing I notice in a group environment with talkative people, especially after they consumed a few drinks, they tend to respond without listening, or they "listen not to understand but to respond".

I'm not saying myself is better (yes, I did have my own lessons 微笑), but observing the phenomenon could be amusing and annoying at the same time.  

I find that Maowi the cat is among good listeners, as he has two very big ears and is always very quiet and very observant when others are talking.  Kudos to him! 鬼脸 加油

Have a good Monday!

 

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Thanks for sharing. Good listeners are popular everywhere. -硅谷居士- 给 硅谷居士 发送悄悄话 硅谷居士 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/14/2025 postreply 08:54:41

So is Maowi ;-). & the words from good listeners r golden ! -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/14/2025 postreply 09:11:40

Listening is a skill but to be heard I would kill :-) -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/14/2025 postreply 08:55:07

no U won’t;-) But no need 2 go far, just look around in the -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/14/2025 postreply 09:14:17

virtual world, some would lie/cheat 2 b noticed & heard ;-) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/14/2025 postreply 09:17:27

哈哈,语不惊人死不休吗?It's human nature. Everyone has it. No big deal. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/14/2025 postreply 09:33:44

yes, all‘ve some虚荣心, noBiggy. But jealousy ain't good, as -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/14/2025 postreply 09:43:36

"Envy is rottenness to the bones" - APAD 2024-07-13 ;-) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/14/2025 postreply 09:44:33

I am all ears today.It's said the best交流者is being a listener -暖冬cool夏- 给 暖冬cool夏 发送悄悄话 暖冬cool夏 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/14/2025 postreply 09:55:36

Agreed totally! 悄悄问:may I borrow Ur ears? just kidding ;-)) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/14/2025 postreply 10:08:50

Of course,if mine hear better:)) -暖冬cool夏- 给 暖冬cool夏 发送悄悄话 暖冬cool夏 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 04/14/2025 postreply 12:54:41

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