APAD: Revenge is better served cold.

Meaning:

  Vengeance is more satisfying when exacted some time after the harm that

  instigated it.

 

Background:

   The proverb "revenge is a dish best served cold" is not especially old but

   first appeared in English in the translation of Eug e Sue's novel Memoirs of

   Matilda in 1846.

 

   It has since been used in many works of popular culture, including Kind

   Hearts and Coronets, The Godfather, and Star Trek II, The Wrath of Kahn.  The

   proverb suggests that revenge is best taken when it is carefully planned and

   executed, rather than in the heat of the moment.

 

     - Kind Hearts and Coronets, 1949: "Revenge is a dish which people of taste

       prefer to eat cold."

     - The Godfather, 1972: Don Corleone nodded. "Revenge is a dish that tastes

       best when it is cold," he said.

     - Star Trek II, The Wrath of Kahn, 1982: Kirk, old friend, do you know the

       Klingon proverb, "Revenge is a dish best served cold"?

 

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The world is such a confusing place that the promise of revenge, served hot or

cold, sounds overrated. The Godfather, for whom vendettas are business, modus

viviendi, understands that hating the enemy clouds one's judgment. Sans hatred,

however, vengence would deliver a shoddy dish, like mapo tofu without sichuan

pepper.

 

There was no lack of loathing between Christians and Jews back in the days in

Venice, but would the curse on his nation be lifted and Shylock enter an eternal

bliss had he exacted his pound of flesh? All things considered, he might be

punished more by his burning quest than for it.

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“He who laughs last, laughs best” - unknow origin :-)) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 08:32:11

The wait might not be worth it :-) -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 08:40:53

君子报仇,十年不晚? -硅谷居士- 给 硅谷居士 发送悄悄话 硅谷居士 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 08:38:31

That sounds close. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 08:41:16

迟来的报仇更让人满意。 -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 08:49:50

The best revenge is living well. -硅谷居士- 给 硅谷居士 发送悄悄话 硅谷居士 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 08:40:20

totally. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 08:41:40

can't agree more !!!! -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 09:01:56

Hmm, MapoTofu w/ Spepper, Yummy! But Shylock was perhaps -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 08:46:46

swallowed by his own greed :-)) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 08:48:02

Heard Adam Smith said greed is a good thing :-) -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 08:50:40

Life is too short to hold grudges. Let it go. -妖妖灵- 给 妖妖灵 发送悄悄话 妖妖灵 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 09:21:47

Conquering self is never easy. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 09:27:11

Grudges hurt the immune system.不高兴的事我很快就忘记了:)你是啥星座?Virgo? -妖妖灵- 给 妖妖灵 发送悄悄话 妖妖灵 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 09:37:51

So that's your secret: astrology! :-)) -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 09:41:28

I bet you are one of Earth signs:) -妖妖灵- 给 妖妖灵 发送悄悄话 妖妖灵 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 09:45:17

Cheers! The betting is what life's all about. :-)) -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 09:48:39

Love your relay! The vivid mapotofu metaphor made me smile:) -暖冬cool夏- 给 暖冬cool夏 发送悄悄话 暖冬cool夏 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 09:30:50

Me 2, good write up & very funny -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 09:35:09

Thank you both Different strokes for different folks--妖妖灵:-) -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 09:35:18

Mexican president ClaudiaSheinbaum wins plaudits 4 cool head -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (84 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 09:51:00

Hurray for Sheinbaum! -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 09:55:43

Remarkable woman, from environment scientist 2 politician, -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 10:06:20

also landslide winning election, so far unscathed -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 10:07:09

Sounds like a natural career path:-)) -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 10:09:43

当墨国总统得通黑白两道吧?川普称墨西哥essentially run by cartels -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 10:16:53

Russia by thugs, Italy by mafiosi, etc. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 10:22:55

Which country by convicted felon? -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 10:36:00

The USA:) -妖妖灵- 给 妖妖灵 发送悄悄话 妖妖灵 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 11:05:06

哈哈哈 -永远老李- 给 永远老李 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/24/2025 postreply 14:19:39

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