APAD:Prosperity makes friends, and adversity tries them.

Prosperity makes friends, and adversity tries them.

In times of prosperity, it is easy to attract friends and supporters. However, it is during times of adversity that true friends are revealed. It is important to appreciate and maintain friendships, and to support others in both good times and bad.

Genuine friendship is made and nurtured based on selflessness, mutual appreciation and, sympathy. It is based on the principle of give! and take. We look to our friends for support and in times of need. And in return, we too must support our friends. That is why it has been said: A friend in need is a friend indeed. Many people flock around a rich man! claiming to be his friends. But as soon as the rich man loses his wealth most of his friends desert him just as rats desert a sinking ship. Only those friends who stand by him, through thick and thin, are dependable friends.

 

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Nice writeup! Suddenly thought of Chinese:锦上添花易,雪里送炭难!!! -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/23/2025 postreply 06:48:21

人性复杂,有的人只能共苦,有的人只能同甘 -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/23/2025 postreply 12:53:09

I‘m lucky I made a friend with you during my adversity time -妖妖灵- 给 妖妖灵 发送悄悄话 妖妖灵 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/23/2025 postreply 08:41:23

So, don't need to be put it to test -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/23/2025 postreply 12:58:02

感动 -妖妖灵- 给 妖妖灵 发送悄悄话 妖妖灵 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/23/2025 postreply 20:33:33

Many can 同患难 but can't stand 同富贵, however. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/23/2025 postreply 10:44:27

interesting view & true in history ;-) eg. 兔死狗烹 鸟尽弓藏 -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/23/2025 postreply 10:47:56

History's an equivocal guide leaving the traveller to make -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/23/2025 postreply 10:58:32

up their own mind. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/23/2025 postreply 10:58:44

4 sure. Actually that was my next comment. So Thx :-)) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/23/2025 postreply 11:02:54

人性复杂 -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/23/2025 postreply 12:54:02

夫妻本是同林鸟,大难临头各自飞:)夫妻尚且如此,不要说rats了:)) -暖冬cool夏- 给 暖冬cool夏 发送悄悄话 暖冬cool夏 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/23/2025 postreply 11:30:41

so sad ;-) but I ain’t aRat &won’t hang my friends out2dry!! -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/23/2025 postreply 11:36:10

dogs are more loyal than humans -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/23/2025 postreply 12:55:46

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