APAD: Counsel is no command.

Counsel is no command.

This proverb suggests that just because someone gives advice, it does not mean that they have the authority to dictate one’s actions. It implies that people should use their own judgment and make their own decisions, rather than blindly following the advice of others.

The same wording may be used in both command and counsel. Like "Do this," or "Do not this,"

Command is where a man says without expecting other reason than the will of him that says it. From this it follows manifestly that he that commands pretends thereby his own benefit: for the reason of his command is his own will only, and the proper object of every man's will is some good to himself.

Counsel is where a man says, deduces his reasons from the benefit that arrives by it to him to whom he says it. And from this it is evident that he that gives counsel pretends only (whatsoever he intends) the good of him to whom he gives it.

Therefore between counsel and command, one great difference is that command is directed to a man's own benefit, and counsel to the benefit of another man.

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将在外君命(都可以)有所不受,best 2 say nothing, counsel or command ;-) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/18/2024 postreply 04:45:54

君命是command -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/18/2024 postreply 12:36:11

“Instruction does much, but encouragement, everything.” -妖妖灵- 给 妖妖灵 发送悄悄话 妖妖灵 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/18/2024 postreply 08:13:10

虚心接受,坚决不改 -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/18/2024 postreply 12:36:45

Always be aware of motivation. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/18/2024 postreply 08:51:16

+1! "every corpse onMt.Everest wasOnce a motivatedPerson";-) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/18/2024 postreply 08:59:06

Yes, when counsellor wants to be dominant -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/18/2024 postreply 12:40:15

Sometimes too much counsel annoying, like parents to childre -天边一片白云- 给 天边一片白云 发送悄悄话 天边一片白云 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/18/2024 postreply 09:14:58

+1! know firsthand, as a child & as a parent ;-)) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/18/2024 postreply 09:23:00

Childhood has no power to refuse -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/18/2024 postreply 12:41:29

Being parents doesn't mean they can give command to kids:) -暖冬cool夏- 给 暖冬cool夏 发送悄悄话 暖冬cool夏 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/18/2024 postreply 17:47:26

we knew when we were kids but forgot when we r parents;-)) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/18/2024 postreply 18:37:32

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