APAD:Repentance is good, but innocence is better

Repentance is good, but innocence is better

It is better to avoid doing wrong in the first place than to have to ask for forgiveness later. Prevention is better than cure.

We all make mistakes; do things we regret later. When the consequences of our actions or words hit home we feel remorse and wish our ways had been different. We can repent, say we are sorry, and try to make amends.

How genuinely sorry are we? Sorry for what we did or feeling sorry for ourselves because we have to suffer the fall out? The purpose of emotional pain is to teach us a lesson: we act wrongly and suffer the result. Sometimes we suffer when it is not our fault, or it does not seem to be, but we often have no choice in these circumstances other than to adopt a philosophical attitude and struggle on.

Trying to understand the complexities of cause and effect is very difficult. Is it possible for any of us to lead a totally innocent life in a competitive world?

Innocence is not always enough to prevent harm coming your way but in many cases it does help to put the odds in your favor.

 

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yes,innocence is golden &better to have remorse than regrets -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/31/2024 postreply 04:35:43

eh,better let the sorry go to others than to oneself -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/31/2024 postreply 05:16:32

莫名想起《流星花园》里道明寺霸道总裁般地对杉菜说“如果道歉有用,还要警察干嘛?” LOL -JoyAnna.- 给 JoyAnna. 发送悄悄话 JoyAnna. 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/31/2024 postreply 05:46:35

顺便怀念一下那时的偶像F4—《流星雨》和庾澄庆《情非得已》。歌声里是满满的青春的回忆。 -JoyAnna.- 给 JoyAnna. 发送悄悄话 JoyAnna. 的博客首页 (447 bytes) () 10/31/2024 postreply 05:50:08

Sometimes we suffer because of other people's fault, -JoyAnna.- 给 JoyAnna. 发送悄悄话 JoyAnna. 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/31/2024 postreply 06:09:56

sometimes even due to our own fault. -JoyAnna.- 给 JoyAnna. 发送悄悄话 JoyAnna. 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/31/2024 postreply 06:10:44

Man is a sinner by nature. -JoyAnna.- 给 JoyAnna. 发送悄悄话 JoyAnna. 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/31/2024 postreply 06:11:43

Sometimes we are hurt. Sometimes we hurt others. -JoyAnna.- 给 JoyAnna. 发送悄悄话 JoyAnna. 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/31/2024 postreply 06:13:42

It’s wise to forgive others and also protect ourselves. -JoyAnna.- 给 JoyAnna. 发送悄悄话 JoyAnna. 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/31/2024 postreply 06:18:19

Let's congregate under this thread & confess our sins -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/31/2024 postreply 07:47:53

Amen -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/31/2024 postreply 07:48:45

A 3rd option: neither innocence nor repentance. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/31/2024 postreply 08:37:00

eww, that’s scary;-)) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/31/2024 postreply 09:01:33

Epictetus seemed to have taken that option :-) -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (103 bytes) () 10/31/2024 postreply 09:09:39

NotSure. I see 2 types NI&&NR: one never do anything wrong -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/31/2024 postreply 09:26:09

One purposely did wrong and refused to repent -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/31/2024 postreply 09:28:24

There seems to be a whole sweep of sinners in between :-) -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/31/2024 postreply 09:37:27

Yes, that’s humanity spectrum, with us included ;-)) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/31/2024 postreply 09:42:49

Like Putin, Zelenskyy, Netanyahu, Trump, Biden, etc, etc... -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/31/2024 postreply 09:26:41

Yes, most politicians need to lie/twist truth 2 stay inPower -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/31/2024 postreply 09:34:42

Hard to judge as I know none personally :-) -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/31/2024 postreply 09:42:33

dumping on celebrities is safe -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/31/2024 postreply 10:33:44

Some mistakes are very costly, by time , money , maybe fate. -天边一片白云- 给 天边一片白云 发送悄悄话 天边一片白云 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/31/2024 postreply 19:14:17

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