APAD:Never reveal a man's wage and woman's age

Never reveal a man's wage, and woman's age

This was even legit in times where women were judged by the age because of fertility. And men were judged by salary because he was the breadwinner!

But in today's society, these are nothing but taboos! yes, in the concepts like arrange marriages age and salary are two main features that are showcased!


Why do they say never ask a man his salary?
The common consensus is that questions about a person's salary are “rude” and therefore off-limits. Divulging your salary can make you feel self-conscious because you're afraid that people will either pity or envy you, and neither of those are comfortable positions.

Why is it taboo to ask a woman her age?

Well, why, indeed? A society that extols youth and degrades age has poisoned the pleasure of having a long life, but people have curiously adopted this attitude. Often, even employers (illegally) value youth over experience.

In social circumstances, it has thought ridiculous to consider one’s age an embarrassment. Nevertheless, it is — to many gentlemen, as well as ladies — and therefore, that question should not be asked of anyone except children.

 

 

 

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true in the west. but might be different in other culture ;) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/22/2024 postreply 04:47:24

trueStory: when myDad came 2CanadaVisiting & met a neighbour -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (483 bytes) () 08/22/2024 postreply 04:58:37

哈哈 I didn't know my neighbor's name tho we greet each day -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/22/2024 postreply 06:24:16

unfortunately I know most my neighbours ages (they told;-)) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/22/2024 postreply 09:45:06

The grapevine is more powerful than the press :-) -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/22/2024 postreply 09:23:40

hate gossiping but couldn't stop old men talking ;-) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/22/2024 postreply 09:46:19

No need to. You'd kill 90% of the fun. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/22/2024 postreply 10:22:20

Haha。like your story. -天边一片白云- 给 天边一片白云 发送悄悄话 天边一片白云 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/22/2024 postreply 16:52:04

wished myDad would have had checked withMe b4 the meetup ;(( -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/22/2024 postreply 17:17:54

In the west, men seem also more insecure about age. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/22/2024 postreply 09:25:46

but age discrimination is illegal in NA? -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/22/2024 postreply 10:18:44

That's good. But law and life are not always the same. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/22/2024 postreply 10:24:01

True. Don't ask wage or age of anybody. -天边一片白云- 给 天边一片白云 发送悄悄话 天边一片白云 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/22/2024 postreply 16:55:06

Vice versa:) -妖妖灵- 给 妖妖灵 发送悄悄话 妖妖灵 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/22/2024 postreply 18:44:33

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