Be kind

本帖于 2024-01-09 18:15:36 时间, 由普通用户 最西边的岛上 编辑

最近看到孙博士流浪美国街头的故事,很为其感叹和可惜。

我们这里是加拿大比较暖和的地方,今年冬天还没有下过雪,草地和往年冬天一样依旧葱绿,房门口的红茶花已经自己决定进入春天开始绽放。

不过因为暖和,这里,特别是在Downtown,也有不少(homeless)流浪者,而且疫情以来数目一直在慢慢增加。本地的媒介对此有不少讨论。不久前我在本地reddit网站里也参加了一次讨论。下面是我的一个post there, titled "Be kind"

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One warm day this summer, we went cycling on our regular 25km downtown route.  We stopped half way and sat on the bench near Vancouver@Rockland for a chocolate break. An ordinary looking and quiet man was sitting on the next bench and we offered him a piece. He hesitated first, then thanked us politely and started telling us that he was there visiting his son, and his story of becoming homeless recently and how he was trying to maintain his dignity through the ordel.

We listened to him but couldn't find many right words to say, other than a nod of sympathy. This gentleman's story told us that life is very complicated and anyone, ourselves included, could run into tough times. A few kind words and even a small piece of chocolate would warm one's heart during those trying periods.

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Thanks for reading.

 

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Life is tough sometimes . This guy tried to maintain dignity -盈盈一笑间- 给 盈盈一笑间 发送悄悄话 盈盈一笑间 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 18:40:43

Sounds sad. Hope he may get back to normal life someday. -盈盈一笑间- 给 盈盈一笑间 发送悄悄话 盈盈一笑间 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 18:42:00

There are many reasons for living on the streets. -盈盈一笑间- 给 盈盈一笑间 发送悄悄话 盈盈一笑间 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 18:42:31

In addition to mental problems, many are due to drug abuse -盈盈一笑间- 给 盈盈一笑间 发送悄悄话 盈盈一笑间 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 18:43:26

U are correct. Also there is a new unfortunate trend here: -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (172 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 19:29:24

Sad. Is Canada's welfare better than that of the US? -盈盈一笑间- 给 盈盈一笑间 发送悄悄话 盈盈一笑间 的博客首页 (50 bytes) () 01/09/2024 postreply 13:14:51

I don’t know policy in US, but think Canada is probably -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (52 bytes) () 01/10/2024 postreply 05:12:31

盈盈和樓主新年好-,跟個歌詞版的"芭比"-:&-祝好-;)),-問好-:))。。 -青松站- 给 青松站 发送悄悄话 青松站 的博客首页 (244 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 19:29:00

谢谢。 -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 19:30:16

谢谢松松。新年快乐。谢谢分享 -盈盈一笑间- 给 盈盈一笑间 发送悄悄话 盈盈一笑间 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/09/2024 postreply 13:16:47

There is an old saying"leave no one behind"-,, -青松站- 给 青松站 发送悄悄话 青松站 的博客首页 (341 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 19:20:32

Yes, but it's getting harder and harder ... -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 19:32:21

I feel sorry for Dr. Sun, whose mental disorders was not -唐宋韵- 给 唐宋韵 发送悄悄话 唐宋韵 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 19:36:47

addressed promptly, leading to executive function problem... -唐宋韵- 给 唐宋韵 发送悄悄话 唐宋韵 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 19:40:20

He is a person in need, only if he had a good friend then . -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 21:12:06

Friends couldn't help. He needed a shrink, believe me... -唐宋韵- 给 唐宋韵 发送悄悄话 唐宋韵 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/09/2024 postreply 09:30:40

I believe you, but he needs a friend to send him to a shrink -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/10/2024 postreply 19:33:22

Everyone is fighting a battle I know nothing about. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 19:44:02

very true, sigh ... -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 21:13:18

other than a nod of sympathy. +1,好句! -暖冬cool夏- 给 暖冬cool夏 发送悄悄话 暖冬cool夏 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 20:08:12

谢谢暖冬!learned by reading, and keep reading and learning ... -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 21:16:53

Not sure which report I should trust about Sun, but -方外居士- 给 方外居士 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 20:08:38

But his dignity should be respected. -方外居士- 给 方外居士 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 20:08:58

For sure. -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/08/2024 postreply 21:23:33

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