APAD:A good listener is a silent flatterer.

A good listener is a silent flatterer.

Human beings have an innate desire to be listened, but only few are good listeners. So, if you listen to someone attentively, you’ll flatter them.

Example: One of the reasons I could build such a network of friends is my ability to listen (more than speak) to people. A good listener is a silent flatterer, after all.

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• Socrates was definitely NOT a good listener. He listened -7grizzly- ♀ (142 bytes) () 03/10/2023 postreply 15:57:27

• How to be a good listener? U might need 2 be in his shoes. -妖妖灵- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/10/2023 postreply 16:10:00

• 别跑题啊，这意思是说，别人讲话时你专注去听而不是总插嘴等于是在恭维， -移花接木- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/10/2023 postreply 16:25:37

• 我怎么觉得你接上下茬感同身受才是个好听众呢：）看到这个新闻，感觉买个颜色鲜艳的车很重要： -妖妖灵- ♀ (421 bytes) () 03/10/2023 postreply 16:36:02

• 两只耳朵，一张嘴，多听少说 -移花接木- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/10/2023 postreply 17:19:40

• 关键是“good listener"定义，一言不发的未必叫good listenser, -移花接木- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/10/2023 postreply 17:26:14

• silent flatter不见得是不说话，或者可以指不说奉承话， -移花接木- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/10/2023 postreply 17:28:21

• 嗯，明白，就是少说话，更尊重人，所以反而比多说话的人更是一个flatterer。 -妖妖灵- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/10/2023 postreply 18:09:03

• 那得加上身体语言，鼓励的注意的眼神 和空洞的眼神绝对不一样。 -jianchi9090- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/11/2023 postreply 04:09:28

• u got it, 这些都是成为一个good listener的要素 -移花接木- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/11/2023 postreply 04:42:02