Why don't men wear lipstick?

来源: Lily2005 2021-07-02 22:19:18 [] [博客] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读: 次 (1681 bytes)

When I was very young, my family shared a row of bungalows with three other families. All three of them have a grandma. All grandmas like to wash their feet outside. They all bind their feet (缠脚) so the process of washing their feet is very long. The children will gather around to watch. I had observed that the young grandma's feet are bigger, while the older grandma's feet are smaller. The oldest grandma's feet are very small, only the size of her hands, and very pointed. My little head thought that the older the woman, the smaller her feet.

When I grew up, I realized that cruel foot binding (缠脚) had made their feet smaller. The oldest grandma has the strictest binding, so her feet were the smallest. All the bones on her toes were broken, and then the toes were pressed under the soles of the feet to make the feet look smaller. Why do they do such a painful thing? The answer is easy to find, the patriarchal society forces them to do this. But why do some women break their ribs to make their waists smaller today? Why do young women cut off part of the facial bone in order to make the chin smaller? I asked myself, why do I wear high heels, some of which are more than 4 inches? Why did I wear a skirt in the very cold winter before?

Men should do this, not women. I just watched the Netflix documentary "Life in Color" and realized that in the animal kingdom, males are always colorful and beautiful. Male peacocks do that in an extreme form. Their beautiful long tails that attract females put them at a higher risk than females.

Why has that changed on humans?

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这么有洞察力的文章:)Lily来参加美坛蓝绿PK活动哈,为绿队加油:) -beautifulwind- 给 beautifulwind 发送悄悄话 beautifulwind 的博客首页 (210 bytes) () 07/02/2021 postreply 23:01:20

Because -easyboy- 给 easyboy 发送悄悄话 easyboy 的博客首页 (222 bytes) () 07/02/2021 postreply 23:29:13

Lol -Lily2005- 给 Lily2005 发送悄悄话 Lily2005 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/03/2021 postreply 05:23:00

哈哈,刚知道这是个Idiom:)EZ的英文太好啦!:) -beautifulwind- 给 beautifulwind 发送悄悄话 beautifulwind 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/03/2021 postreply 16:32:24

How many male peacocks are here? Feel free to kidnap them all.:- -陶陶三- 给 陶陶三 发送悄悄话 陶陶三 的博客首页 (53 bytes) () 07/03/2021 postreply 06:32:13

Here is the -ibelieu- 给 ibelieu 发送悄悄话 ibelieu 的博客首页 (161 bytes) () 07/03/2021 postreply 06:55:39

Here is an attempt to answer the question found -ibelieu- 给 ibelieu 发送悄悄话 ibelieu 的博客首页 (223 bytes) () 07/03/2021 postreply 06:57:24

Good article, thanks for sharing! -Lily2005- 给 Lily2005 发送悄悄话 Lily2005 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/03/2021 postreply 11:48:10

男人穿裙子不好看,比较突兀和摇摆;) -忒忒绿- 给 忒忒绿 发送悄悄话 忒忒绿 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/03/2021 postreply 08:07:00

Are the kilt-wearing folks in Scotland/Ireland not men? :) -ibelieu- 给 ibelieu 发送悄悄话 ibelieu 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/03/2021 postreply 08:19:38

男人的LIPSTICK是金钱,地位, 特权 -树的花花世界- 给 树的花花世界 发送悄悄话 树的花花世界 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/03/2021 postreply 09:50:46

发人深省的好文! -Ha65494- 给 Ha65494 发送悄悄话 Ha65494 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/03/2021 postreply 11:37:53

好文!错过了童年饭太稀的活动啊,让我想起奇志大兵的相声,金盆洗脚城 -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (212 bytes) () 07/03/2021 postreply 11:45:54

很好的观察思考, 赞! -甜虫虫- 给 甜虫虫 发送悄悄话 甜虫虫 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/03/2021 postreply 11:50:23

赞! A fantastic topic -颤音- 给 颤音 发送悄悄话 颤音 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/03/2021 postreply 18:09:05

Maybe for social, economic reasons, women have relied on men -天玉之- 给 天玉之 发送悄悄话 天玉之 的博客首页 (590 bytes) () 07/03/2021 postreply 21:16:44

我注意到小女孩在很小的年纪,就喜欢穿裙子、戴首饰,照镜子,甚至学大人涂口红,此乃女人爱美之天性,并非全出自男权社会压迫。:-) -陶陶三- 给 陶陶三 发送悄悄话 陶陶三 的博客首页 (120 bytes) () 07/04/2021 postreply 08:47:20

Nothing was more tragic and ironical than wearing -LYJiang- 给 LYJiang 发送悄悄话 LYJiang 的博客首页 (264 bytes) () 07/12/2021 postreply 20:40:50

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