it is an excuse to protect yourself

after listening to your speech, they will come up with their own conclusions based on your story and theri own exprience. their conclusion can be very different from yours.

 

by stating your position, you cover your butt and let poeple know "I are aware of what I am talking about".

 

if somone I don't know behave like this,

first, I would think he has a bad day(had fight with his wife in the morning, critized by his father, lost some money), he is not himself today.

 

 

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now i am confused that I am not sure if you undersood what I j -sportwoman- 给 sportwoman 发送悄悄话 sportwoman 的博客首页 (379 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 11:21:28

sorry to interfere your thoughts. -tingfeng- 给 tingfeng 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 11:36:48

oh, no need to say sorry, but there is a need for me to -sportwoman- 给 sportwoman 发送悄悄话 sportwoman 的博客首页 (149 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 11:49:02

be proactive -tingfeng- 给 tingfeng 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 11:56:53

I seldom do speech on negative stuff. -sportwoman- 给 sportwoman 发送悄悄话 sportwoman 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 11:58:45

i dont need to protect myself, because they have no chance to as -sportwoman- 给 sportwoman 发送悄悄话 sportwoman 的博客首页 (388 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 11:43:49

in the purpose of impressing others, you are absolutely right. -tingfeng- 给 tingfeng 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 11:48:21

thank you! -sportwoman- 给 sportwoman 发送悄悄话 sportwoman 的博客首页 (51 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 11:53:07

I am observing as well, sunny! -tingfeng- 给 tingfeng 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 11:56:25

Actually we both are being observed, These days -sportwoman- 给 sportwoman 发送悄悄话 sportwoman 的博客首页 (342 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 12:14:22

haha...we are. What to share, I have no idea... hints? -tingfeng- 给 tingfeng 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 12:19:26

you are an attractive girl, I am all ears for your stories. -tingfeng- 给 tingfeng 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 12:22:53

i hope so but they said my figure looks -sportwoman- 给 sportwoman 发送悄悄话 sportwoman 的博客首页 (61 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 12:33:18

well, 穿越到唐朝吧! -tingfeng- 给 tingfeng 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 12:42:43

still people believe inner beauty is important. -tingfeng- 给 tingfeng 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 12:44:07

Very nice to chat with you professor Windy! -sportwoman- 给 sportwoman 发送悄悄话 sportwoman 的博客首页 (85 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 12:53:17

I've learned a lot as well, bye, Sunny. -tingfeng- 给 tingfeng 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/30/2012 postreply 13:09:52

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