A high school classmate hanged himself for depression, partly is a kind of羞辱 for seeing no opportunity, for an unhappy wife, his character and physique also are decisive cause.
Say his 褥子 was urinated by one of his classmates, he did not ask for compensation, this shows he is not a rough or bad guy.
Say his wife should be a quilt to keep him warm, but instead maybe she treated him as a 褥子-- put under which is the same with 羞辱, to put underneath. So did his boss.
Ren Bishi was called as a quilt for his warmness, quilt is above, like the position of a leader, but most of the bosses are like a cold fan, a cold shower. Slightness is a kind of 羞辱. If his boss could seen what he would have been in the future, it is his boss who would have been 羞辱.
横眉冷对千夫指， 俯首甘为孺子牛
Fierce-browed, I coolly defy a thousand pointing fingers; head-bowed, like a willing ox I serve the children.
俯首甘为褥子羞 may be a positive thinking when one is in a low position.
