Face Conflict Head-On

本帖于 2011-07-27 09:18:55 时间, 由版主 林贝卡 编辑

"Don't be afraid of conflict."

It's nature to become agitated when you face conflict or disagreement. But when you think about it, conflict is a part of life. It's inescapable.

Approaching conflict with a sense of calmness goes a whole lot further in making peace than getting all worked up.

Abandon the concept of winning and losing when facing a disagreement. Instead, think in term of resolution. Be flexible.

When the other side senses that you're interested in finding a solution, they will be much more agreeable. Rather than confrontation and conflict, you can work together in cooperation to find a solution that suits you both.

Today's affirmation: I approach conflict with a sense of calm.

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I cannot agree with you more! -beautifulwind- 给 beautifulwind 发送悄悄话 beautifulwind 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/20/2011 postreply 22:36:22

好文,谢分享。 -纾珈- 给 纾珈 发送悄悄话 纾珈 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/21/2011 postreply 13:16:33

是你自己原创的啊,真好啊。我啥时候有这个境界啊! -i999- 给 i999 发送悄悄话 i999 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 07/21/2011 postreply 23:37:03

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