Need your judgment or advice

Can you provide any advice or judgment on whether my housework load is heavier than that of my hu*****and?

Here is what I have been doing for over 1x years of marriage except under the situations such as I was out of town or in hospital:

1. preapre and cook 3 meals a day (lunchbox for both is prepared the previous night)
2. weekly laundry
3. all dealings with my child's school including backpack check
4. all dealings with mortgage and telephone companies
5. all dealings with auto and property insurance
6. all dealings with travel agency
7. 50% of garbage removal
8. 50% of child's dental appointment and annual checkup
9. 10% of manual dishwashing
10. 30% of snow removal in winter.

His list:

1. 90% dishwashing (He enjoys washing dishes manually.)
2. All dealings with satellite dish and high-speed companies
3. 4 times of sandwich packing for the child every week
4. Occasional child's backpack check (around 20 times a year)
5. Vaccuming the floor every two-three weeks
6. Go swimming with the child weekly
7. 50% of garbage removal
8. 50% of child's dental appointment and annual checkup
9. 45% of snow removal in winter (another 25% is done by my child).

We do shopping together. Besides, we both work 9:00 to 5:00 Mon to Fri. He is fine with this arrangement and I keep on fighting for less housework.

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• actually not bad -y2001- ♀ (196 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 09:25:53

• 呵呵，不多，不多，一家人不分彼此！ -春蚕- ♀ (617 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 09:33:08

• 如果这样，老公要末是个能挣钱的主儿，要末是个嘴巴甜会哄老婆的主儿。 -princessannie- ♀ (72 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 11:00:30

• 分工不错嘛，fight 啥呀！ 好好过吧。 -凡繁人心- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 10:00:07

• 我觉得你们做得都不错。不要计较了!多做一点累不死人：-) -乡下来的人- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 10:02:19

• 多做一点累不死. but have you heard of Muscle Strain? -y2001- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 10:05:42

• 话没错但这1条1条的是前男朋友还是啥.我不懂这个 -woodrooste- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 10:17:29

• still Muo He Qi. a long way to go -y2001- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 10:32:30

• 看来我比你少做跟家务和财政有关的，多做跟小孩有关的。把倒垃圾的或想办法给老公。 -princessannie- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 10:14:06

• 楼主老公好太多太多了.偶那为除了每年报税.做些小修补.基 -MrsKwok- ♀ (76 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 10:17:25

• 天哪我这样会被打死或者吐沫淹死的 -woodrooste- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 10:19:19

• 昨淹死法?他家就是这样.基本男的都很安逸.他爸爸35岁 -MrsKwok- ♀ (108 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 11:01:34

• 如果凡事你可以作主，他不反对，那样的甩手也不坏。 -凡繁人心- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 10:25:51

• 不是.大小事还得请示.不批就拉到. -MrsKwok- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 10:46:12

• 这个惨，我最烦早请示晚汇报圆桌会议。 -凡繁人心- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 10:52:51

• 也没啥.多个人商量更好 -MrsKwok- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 11:11:23

• co：楼主老公好太多太多了.偶那为除了每年报税.... -y2001- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 10:34:29

• i think it is a fair arrangement. Your hubby pitchs in a lot -gqc- ♀ (8 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 10:17:31

• 这是我的单子。 -Apricotseed- ♀ (1088 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 10:24:45

• hug hug. -y2001- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 10:36:53

• 那你们是典型的男主外，女主内型。老公是不是挣钱比老婆多多呢？ -princessannie- ♀ (56 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 10:42:49

• I earn more money than he does. -花媚玉堂人- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 13:22:54

• 杏杏.偶可是全年无休工.太不公平了.要投诉 -MrsKwok- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 10:44:19

• 分的好细啊！分这么细说明两个人都太计较， -温馨秋月- ♀ (257 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 10:25:45

• 说真的.很奇怪昨会跟老公算计! -MrsKwok- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 10:38:04

• 这有什莫奇怪，人寻找内心平衡点是个本能吧。就像小孩子间争东西，更加计较的是ｆａｉｒｎｅｓｓ． -princessannie- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 10:44:30

• Go swimming with child is housework? -oops_yz- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 10:48:38

• 当然算的，只要是花时间做的，主要不是为了自己的，都算，尤其是定期做的那种。 -princessannie- ♀ (84 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 10:55:00

• The load has nothing with our income. If you have to relate it t -花媚玉堂人- ♀ (177 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 11:37:41

• 你做饭他洗碗，公平合理。你洗衣他洗地毯。你老公可以了。 -gqc- ♀ (26 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 18:28:11

• 请人做家务。。双职工家庭有钱没时间，能花钱打发的事情痛快花钱打发掉。 -偶尔到此一游- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 11:55:07

• 两人工作就变有钱了，我怎么没感到自己有钱 -中国心中国人- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/28/2009 postreply 12:08:28