Need your judgment or advice
Can you provide any advice or judgment on whether my housework load is heavier than that of my hu*****and?
Here is what I have been doing for over 1x years of marriage except under the situations such as I was out of town or in hospital:
1. preapre and cook 3 meals a day (lunchbox for both is prepared the previous night)
2. weekly laundry
3. all dealings with my child's school including backpack check
4. all dealings with mortgage and telephone companies
5. all dealings with auto and property insurance
6. all dealings with travel agency
7. 50% of garbage removal
8. 50% of child's dental appointment and annual checkup
9. 10% of manual dishwashing
10. 30% of snow removal in winter.
His list:
1. 90% dishwashing (He enjoys washing dishes manually.)
2. All dealings with satellite dish and high-speed companies
3. 4 times of sandwich packing for the child every week
4. Occasional child's backpack check (around 20 times a year)
5. Vaccuming the floor every two-three weeks
6. Go swimming with the child weekly
7. 50% of garbage removal
8. 50% of child's dental appointment and annual checkup
9. 45% of snow removal in winter (another 25% is done by my child).
We do shopping together. Besides, we both work 9:00 to 5:00 Mon to Fri. He is fine with this arrangement and I keep on fighting for less housework.